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    RyanJ0702 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 30, 2011, 04:01 PM
    Is There Anything Wrong With My Relationship?
    So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 and a half months now. Things have progressively slowed down for us since month 4 or 5. When I first got with her she was all over me, she would always want to be with me, always want to kiss me, it was amazing. Eventually we both started having sex.

    It started slow with it both being our first time, but we got the hang of it and we both really enjoyed it. She used to crave me all the time. Id come over after school and she would fly into my arms and we'd start kissing and eventually one thing would lead to another. This happened about 4 to 5 times a week.

    Soon though around the time school was approaching an end for the year we slowly stopped and we weren't getting along very well. It is now 7 months in and I feel like she doesn't want me anymore. We don't have those romantic sessions anymore where we would just stare into each others eyes and kiss,we haven't had sex in weeks and She spends weeks at her friends house.

    I'm afraid to talk to my girlfriend about sex and I'm afraid to touch her on her butt or anywhere sexual in fear that she won't like it or she'll get angry with me. I love this girl with all my heart and all I want is to be happy with her again and regain my sexual confidence.

    Also I would like to add that she claims to still love me and she still finds me attractive and such, but the only time she expresses her attractions to me is when I ask.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jul 1, 2011, 07:54 PM

    You aren't in love, its all lust, and that's all burned out and there is nothing left. Heck you can't even communicate with her.

    If you can't talk and resolve things, you don't have a relationship. Just sex buddies who no longer have sex.
    I guess it was good while it lasted.
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    Jul 6, 2011, 06:09 PM
    You are immature and young and it was all about sex. Maybe next time you should begin a relationship with getting to know the person before having sex with them as that is how real love grows. I agree with talaniman -this was pure lust and now you have nothing left -you don't even have words. Very sad but this is how many young immature relations are -if you want love communicate,talk,and you will know when you find real love and look back on this as a ridiculous occurrence.

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