[Mzteddy]

So me and my best friend went over to her bf's friends house and we were all chillin and watching TV. After that her and her boyfriend were having sex, and it was just me and her bf's friend and we were just talking, so out of no where he started to kiss me and I didn't do anything because I was shocked, so then he just started to touch me and he took me into a room. I wanted to stop him but I just couldn't say anything because I was speechless. So finally I told him that I have a boyfriend and I can't be doing this. So he just pulled out a condom, and we started from there. So now I feel guilty, and I can't tell my boyfriend because I'm scared :(

[BK201]

You can't hide this. What if your boyfriend comes to know about it from somebody else? Either way he is going to be devastated. Prepare for the worst and tell him, unless you think you can hide this in your heart forever.

[theoneglenn187]

I believe your kidding yourself that you didn't want to have intercourse with this guy. You may have feelings towards your boyfriend, but cheating now shows there is no basis for you to build a relationship with him, be honest with him and tell him you're an awful person for doig what you have done, and that he doesn't have to be with someone who can hurt him like you have done. You want to hear something like you where pressured into the situation, but deep down, you could have left the house, you could have pushed him away, or you could have just called for your friend to help you out. Don't for a second pretend tofeel raped or pressured into the situation, you caused it yourself, it was a mistak, but you can deal with it simply, tell your boyfriend you are a cheat and that he deserves someone special, not someone who clearly isn't ready for a relationship. I hope my comment helps, I know it clearly sounds hurtful, bt you know this is the comment you should e receiving, before you have even given yourself a chance to have a real relatipnship with your boyfriend, you ruined your chance. Wish him all the best and prey he finds someone who will treat him right. You've cheated and you should hope that oneday someone you may care for doesn't do it to you. As you'll understand it's the second most painful thing a person can do to someone they should have feelings for. The first most painful thing a person can do to another, is lead him into a situation where he becomes 'in love' with you, and you can't manage the guilt. You broke any respect that he could have for you. Just be hopefully you never do it again, but I'm sure as you grow older, you will do it again, once a cheat, always a cheat isn't quiet fair, but once youv'e got the taste for something, you generally don't stop. All the best.

[talaniman]

You should talk to a wise and trusted adult, or older person before you talk to anyone. Not your girlfriend, or your boyfriend, but with someone a lot older than you.

[superstar18]

The best thing to do is tell him the truth. And if you don't you will prbably regret it forever so it is better to tell him. You should have just left the house right when your friend started to do it with her boyfriend. If you don't tell him too he can find out from other people and that will be worse than telling him yourself. I mean at least you are being honest with him but what you did was wrong.

[amicon]

You need adult advice-can you speak to a trusted relative or a school counsellor?

[shayshay106]

You should tell him he has the right to know that's massed up you should have just left before it all happened..

[Fr_Chuck]

You knew or at least should have know what was going to happen, and if you had a real boyfriend and really loved him, you would have yelled or slapped the boy when he even touched you, and for sure when he kissed you.

You knew what was happening, and wanted to do it, or you would not have walked to the bedroom

Also where were the other couple having sex, in the room with you, or another room