[beegoodforyou]

It's been over a year now since my daughter was taken away. We still do not have an arragement for visitations. I have tried everything to settle with my ex. But he is not budging. My ex is married to a social worker and I think she is the one being more dominant here. I know this has nothing to do with her but I think she has had a huge influence on my ex. She's trying to take matters in her own hands. She is out of line. Now my husband was convicted (in prison) and I am on my own is there any reason why I could not have my daughter? We are presently going to trial in a few months to get visitations. I have asked my ex to have my daughter for Spring Break. They have come up with a proposal now that she still has to be protected in my care. My husband is not around. Are they now trying to prove that I can't be around her now? I don't understand. They have also asked to cancell the hearing and to schedule a family conference meeting. I have always been good to my ex-never had any issues until his wife stepped in. I never went after him for child support, I was faithful when we were together. He said that I didn't let him see his daughter even though we lived in the same city. He had all the time in the world to see her he just never came around. I was the one to force the issue that my daughter see her father-maybe that was wrong. But I didn't ever once tell her should could not see him or talk to him. I wanted my daughter to know about him. My past relationship (before I met my husband) was abusive and he was mean towards me. It made me an angry person and my daughter said she was afraid of me because I was so angry. She said my eyes used to pop out of my head. I think that left an impression with my daughter now because she will still be till this day ask if I will be mad at her if she tells me something. I have no reason to mad at her, I was trying to fix a problem with the person I was with and it did me more harm than good. Now my new husband and I are happy and we have a good foundation. When I met him he had a past he told me about-but I didn't feel that he was ever a threat to my daughter. But I guess the world has a different view on certain issues. So my question is do you think that my ex and his wife can prove me unfit? Just for the past years or so because of my relationships?

[joypulv]

It isn't clear why you were declared unfit to begin with (hitting? Drugs? Alcohol?) or why your husband is in prison and for how long. If you could use Answer to clear up a few of those facts, very briefly, and when they happened. Not to be nosy but to make a better guess at an answer to your question. If you'd rather not say, that's your right.