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    shay22 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 1, 2011, 09:40 AM
    Why do I feel my boyfriend no longer loves me any more?
    Well he says he love me all the time, and does nice things sometimes, but doesn't want sex much with me, but I see things on the net to make me feel unloved

    I am 22 year old young women,who has been going out with my boyfriend since I was 16, he is a lot older them me, and things just don't seem go right no more, I see things on the net, and he lies to me about it, and that make me feel he up to no good, but says he love me ?

    I just don't understand why my boyfriend lies about watching porno

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    Feb 1, 2011, 01:40 PM

    He lies because he is afraid and ashamed, and fears your reaction to the porn, and his sex drive is down because he is hooked on doing it himself, by himself.

    Don't feel bad, he is just carried away, and you shouldn't take his problem personally. Just Google porn addiction, and learn the facts, and how you can best help him.

    While there may be nothing wrong with porn, or masturbating, sometime we over do it, like drinking, gambling and other things we carry too far, and it becomes a problem for those that care, but don't understand.

    I doubt he fully understands the effects he has on you, to well himself.

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