[jlinkq]

I'm confused up to this point and can't still figured it out. I'm dating this girl and its been three months into the relationship. She's that type of girl that I can settled in with. I have spoiled her so much with gifts, compliments and poems, that I think it has gotten to her head. She never says anything that relates both of us, never tells me she misses me, unless I say it first. I feel really confused, the simple fact that I show her so much love to her and I don't get any back. Maybe I'm taking things to fast because I haven't had a girlfriend for a year before dating her. We only see each other on weekends and now she's going to be working every weekend, so that means I'm going to spent more time without seen her. :confused:

[pluckyflamingo]

Have you had a chance to sit down and talk to her first?

[SINGLE4]

I think you are giving her wwwwaaaayyyy too much attention! Poems, gifts, etc... :rolleyes:

A little spoiling in the beginning of a relationship is nice but after awhile... not a good idea! Also, telling her you miss her all the time :p is not good. Once in a while but not too often. You don't want to come across as too clingy! You have to make her miss you.

Us women like a little challenge!;)

[chuff]

I think after not being with someone for so long you went overboard and it scared her.

[JoeCanada76]

Its over. Its done. Way to pushy. The reason why I say it is done, because before you were only seeing each other and weekends and now your saying it won't even happen on weekends. In my opinion, if you are going to be with somebody you should spend quality time with each other. If you're the only one showing effort, is not a good sign but it does happen. I am not saying I am 100 percent sure that it will not work but it all depends on where you are going to draw the line.


Joe

[jlinkq]

THX guys for your advise, I talked to her and just had to let her go. Thx again.