Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    se123's Avatar
    se123 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Sep 7, 2010, 02:37 PM
    I have short stay on sex
    Am 30 years old and I have a problem during sex with my girl friend. I'll ejaculate immediately and I stop making sex immediately. And this is really strange for my Girl friend. I sometimes ejaculate before starting sex and my interest to sex goes falls immediately. Can any body help me on how to stay long on sex with my friend so that I can satisfy her interest?
    CravenMorhead's Avatar
    CravenMorhead Posts: 4,532, Reputation: 1065
    Adult Sexuality Expert
    		  
    #2

    Sep 8, 2010, 07:32 AM

    Why stop?

    Here is a thought for you. Men take about 10-30min to recharge and be ready for sex again. So you get started and ejaculate quickly. Let it happen. Spend the time until you get another erection pleasuring your woman. Oral play, oral sex, rubbing, and all the fun stuff we usually refer to as ForePlay.

    The result is that you'll have a woman who will be REALLY turned on and a fresh erection that will last longer because you haven't been stimulating it.

    In time you will be able to get a good sexual session with your first erection but you'll need to train yourself to do that.

    As for why this is happening? You're getting too excited. You see the sex and the nakedness and the boobies and nakedness and the thought of it all drives you closer to the release. Chances are you are also unwittingly stimulating yourself by 'grinding' your 'organ' into things. Dry humping I believe is the term. Stop doing that. Don't stop the foreplay though. Just make sure you aren't self-stimulating..

    If all this fails. Talk to your doctor about premature ejaculation.
    flower_child23's Avatar
    flower_child23 Posts: 14, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Sep 11, 2010, 01:27 PM
    A guy friend of mine said that its easier to last longer during sex if he's on top, so he can control himself.
    Catsmine's Avatar
    Catsmine Posts: 3,826, Reputation: 739
    Pest Control Expert
    		  
    #4

    Sep 11, 2010, 06:00 PM

    Craven Morehead has started you on a good path. You can study this path further with this book:

    The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know by Mantak Chia, Douglas Abrams
    Handyman2007's Avatar
    Handyman2007 Posts: 988, Reputation: 73
    Senior Member
    		  
    #5

    Sep 18, 2010, 11:34 AM
    I agree with craven. Give him a nice handjob or something then let him recuperate a little as he arouses you,, he probably will last longer the second(or even third) time!!
    Catsmine's Avatar
    Catsmine Posts: 3,826, Reputation: 739
    Pest Control Expert
    		  
    #6

    Sep 18, 2010, 11:45 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Handyman2007 View Post
    I agree with craven. Give him a nice handjob or something then let him recuperate a little as he arouses you,,,he probably will last longer the second(or even third) time!!!
    The guy was asking the question.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

After a short sale takes place, does the lease or rental agreement stay in force? [ 1 Answers ]

I signed a lease agreement for 1 year, the owners sold the house through short sale and served me a 30 day notice to vacate, is my lease agreement still in force?

Extreme! Pain after sex . (short ?) [ 4 Answers ]

I have experienced 3 times sharp pains in my lower abdomen, after sex, (once during sex) the pain feel like a stabbing cramp in the vaginal and lower abdomen region. The pain is 100% unbearable, I was in tears. Yesterday the pain lasted about 1 hour very intense after I had sex. And slowly...

Applying for a short stay romania (h1b visa expiring 9/08) planning to leave US 8/08- [ 1 Answers ]

Can somebody help me? I am planning to visit romania on August 2008. My fiance's parents are inviting me to romania for me and my fiancé to get married over there. I am curretly holding an h1b status ( I don't have a stamped visa since I've changed my status here in the usa from G-5 to H1b ),...

View more questions Search