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    Hurting_Inside Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 20, 2010, 06:15 PM
    I have a crush on a coworker but I also have a boyfriend what should I do?
    I just started working and I have a crush on one of my coworkers but I also have a boyfriend of a year and I don't know what to do I don't know if the guy at work likes me I don't think he does but I don't know what to do I'm confused and I don't know if I want to be with my boyfriend anymore but I'm not sure
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    Mar 20, 2010, 07:02 PM

    What level relationship if the boyfriend, if you want to date others be sure he knows
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    Mar 20, 2010, 08:00 PM

    Whoa.. sorry to hear that.. if you are even seriously considering leaving someone you've been with a year for someone you know frm work, then you should let him know before you hurt him any worse.. but a word of caution.. before you do this think thoroughly.. once its done, it is not easily forgiven or forgotten..
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    Mar 20, 2010, 08:07 PM
    Hi, Hurting_Inside!

    Would there be a problem with you dating more than one person, please?

    Thanks!
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    Mar 20, 2010, 08:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Hurting_Inside View Post
    I just started working and i have a crush on one of my coworkers but i also have a boyfriend of a year and i dont know what to do i dont know if the guy at work likes me i dont think he does but i dont know what to do im confused and i dont know if i want to be with my boyfriend anymore but im not sure
    For starters if you really like the guy be prepared to quit your job. Because mixing it up with fellow employees is a no no in most companies. Also it doesn't make a lot of sense either. Way too much drama. You should break up with your boyfriend because its obvious that you can't be faithful anymore. So don't keep stringing him along. Its not fair to him at all.
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    Mar 20, 2010, 08:45 PM

    Dating a co worker is and has always been a no no on the job. If you decide to go for it, you should least tell your boyfriend.
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