[Dougan123]

Hello,
I have been thinking for a while now that my face is really ugly. I have wrinkles and my skin is really white. Everyone at school makes fun of me because of it. Is plastic surgery an option for a 12 year old boy?
Thanks

[artlady]

No! Kids can't and should not have plastic surgery.You need to learn to love who you are.. period!

What is good about you kid?

There must be something and why are you up so late unless you live on the other side of the pond?

[Dougan123]

Thank you, I think that it isn't much of a problem, but I do worry a lot about stupid little things.

[justcurious55]

Everyone always has things others will pick on them for. But people usually pick on others because of their own insecurities. I'm fairly pale too. My friends make fun of me for it and make jokes about me glowing in the dark I'm so white. I don't mind it though. Because I know they pick on me because they are insecure. How do I know that? They constantly complain about how dark they are.
Its hard, but do your best not to worry about the "stupid little things." :) focus on the bigger things. Someday those kids will realize that picking on you doesn't fix their problems. And you'll get to look back and realize you were the bigger person. And that feels pretty good.

[Dougan123]

Thank you justcurios55, its good to know that there is someone else like myself, but I'm sorry it happens to you, I know your pain. :(

[justcurious55]

Thanks. But for me, it's really not painful. I'm happy with myself. I have enough people that will say I'm beautiful to boost my ego on days that I'm feeling down about myself. Like I said, people only pick on others when they can't face their own insecurities. I guess it's like they think that if they make fun of you, and put you down, no one will notice their flaws.