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    lonlywomen Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 16, 2009, 06:55 AM
    Just don't understand
    Just don't understand why my husband won't have sex with me. I know that he is not cheating on me. Just dam it doesn't touch me tells me he is not I the mood or that sex isn't something he want's to do right now. I mean what the hell. I do everything you know to make him happy. Just doesn't seem like I am doing the right thing. I don't want to cheat on him I love him too much and that just isn't me. I am tired of playing with myself I want the real deal. He acts like he don't hear me whenI am talking about. My close friend said he might be gay. We have no kids together he has 2 from his past girlfriend. I am smart very sexy attractive women. I don't know anymore. I don't think he even care how I feel about.:confused::confused::confused::(:(:(
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    Sep 16, 2009, 07:54 AM

    Has he been to the doctor to rule out medical reasons?

    Have you talked about it in a calm, non-confrontational way with him?

    How often ARE you having sex?

    Can you give us more information?
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    Sep 16, 2009, 07:57 AM
    As Synnen said...
    Additionally how old are you both...

    What medications is he taking...

    Any power struggles at home...

    These are key info.
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    Sep 16, 2009, 08:09 AM
    To add to the information gathering:

    Has this been an issue through out the relationship or is this a new problem?
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