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    Aug 27, 2009, 03:34 PM
    When your EX dumped you and wants space, why is it a good idea to give it to them?
    I keep reading this forum and whenever I hear that an EX dumps someone and wants space, the advice to the dumpee has always been give her/him the space.

    Why is giving the EX who wants space a good idea? Would this just allow them to fall into another person's arm if there is somebody in the wing?


    What if a person doesn't give that EX the space? What are the negatives?
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    Aug 27, 2009, 03:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by xadmin View Post
    Why is giving the EX who wants space a good idea?
    It's a good idea because this is what the ex wants.

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    Would this just allow them to fall into another person's arm if there is somebody in the wing?
    This is possible, but remember, they are an EX. This is what ex's usually do.

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    What if a person doesn't give that EX the space? What are the negatives?
    A restraining order.
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    Aug 27, 2009, 03:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    It's a good idea because this is what the ex wants.



    This is possible, but remember, they are an EX. This is what ex's usually do.



    A restraining order.

    Yes that is one option. Beside a restraining order, would the ex resent you if you don't give them the space?
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    Aug 27, 2009, 03:44 PM
    Of course the ex will resent you. That's a no brainer.
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    Aug 27, 2009, 04:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by xadmin View Post
    Yes that is one option. Beside a restraining order, would the ex resent you if you don't give them the space?
    They tend to resent you, then hate your guts, and are so glad they broke up with you. Case in point, https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...go-390741.html

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