[gio707]

Hey I'm a 16 yr old boy.. I know that I am different than anyone.. everyone says that I am smart and I understand issues and ideas more complex than my age... everyone asks for my wisdom and I have friends that are much older than me.. I appear to be strong for everyone but I deeply know that I have a lot of weak points.. I feel that I am cursed because every time I need to do a thing for my own benefit ,it can't happen.. if I say that this looks pretty ,this pretty thing will be damaged.. if I say what a wonderful day ,the day will automatically turned into a bad one.. if I say anything it will turn into me... once I said for my neighbor that you have good health and the following day she entered hospital because of heart attack... it is not accidents nor coincidences.. and when I asked for help from a priest, he told me to pray and I pray a lot but nothing happen.. I always go to church and pray for all saints but still my problem is increasing day after day... I can't show my feelings because I am sure something bad will happen and sometime you can't control what you are thinking so it just happens... and I tried to think in the bad way thinking that I can over smart myself but still I can't stop what happening with me.. is it a curse or am I born like this?what should I do?I am fed up with myself.. I am just bad luck for all people around me and for myself...

[artlady]

You do not have that much control over what is happening in life I can assure you.

It is coincidence pure and simple and you are reading too much into it.

I have had many times where I have said something was going good and then it got bad and I have said to others*gee,you can never say anything without it coming back to bite you*.

It is a coincidence we all have experienced.

If what you are saying had any truth to it ,all your thoughts would change destiny,not just some random ones here and there.

If you believe your thoughts are somehow changing destiny ,you need to seek mental health treatment. It is simply impossible that you are somehow cursed and causing these things to happen.

Bad things will always happen,just as good things will.There must have been times when you said *have a good day* to someone ,and they did have a good day.

Your obsessive and irrational thinking is a psychological problem best addressed by a psychologist.