Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    gr8guy1976's Avatar
    gr8guy1976 Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Apr 2, 2009, 11:59 AM
    Just want to know what's my wife up to.
    Hi there just want to know, my wife has this guy that works with her at their work place. She keeps saying he is such a nice guy, when ever I'm fetching her at work and when she comes out I watch her closely with out her knowing and I catch her just looking at him and then when I look at her or talk to her she immediately looks at me not knowing that I caught her watching him. Last night we were sitting on the bed just talking about general things and then she starts telling me how this guy and he's wife met. How do I know what's going on?
    Justwantfair's Avatar
    Justwantfair Posts: 3,422, Reputation: 944
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #2

    Apr 2, 2009, 12:02 PM

    She sounds infatuated with him.

    He is married, hopefully he doesn't share your wife's enthusiasm for her.
    gr8guy1976's Avatar
    gr8guy1976 Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Apr 2, 2009, 12:10 PM
    Thank you, he is married though and has two kids, to me it just doesn't look right and when I ask her do you like that guy she says no. ever so often she talks about him.
    Justwantfair's Avatar
    Justwantfair Posts: 3,422, Reputation: 944
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #4

    Apr 2, 2009, 12:13 PM

    Actions speak louder than words, but like I said hopefully he doesn't return her fantasy.
    DoulaLC's Avatar
    DoulaLC Posts: 10,488, Reputation: 1952
    Uber Member
    		  
    #5

    Apr 2, 2009, 04:30 PM

    How has your relationship been before this guy came to work with her? Were you very close with your wife? One possible reason might be that if this man and his wife have a very loving relationship... for example, maybe he has shared how he has done some really special things for his wife, your wife may be wishing that the relationship the two of you have could be more like that. Maybe she is trying to rekindle the spark you once had.

    When she talks about him, what does she say about him?

    She might just think he is attractive and a nice guy... and that is the extent of it. I would think that if she were interested in him, she would be more likely to not be talking about him, she would be more secretive, trying to hide her attraction.

    After you give some thought to what she is sharing when she talks about him, if it still bothers you, let her know that it makes you a little jealous.
    9110024's Avatar
    9110024 Posts: 15, Reputation: -4
    New Member
    		  
    #6

    Apr 2, 2009, 04:33 PM

    He is married. They are only friends. Ask her to introduce him to you.
    gr8guy1976's Avatar
    gr8guy1976 Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #7

    Apr 2, 2009, 05:08 PM

    The thing is she speaks too much about him, last knight I asked her if she likes him, she looks at me and says you jealous and she laughs, I tell her I'm not just concerned and if you do like him then tell me but she just denies it.
    lumpycampbell's Avatar
    lumpycampbell Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #8

    Apr 7, 2009, 07:56 AM

    Have her invite his wife and kids over for dinner... that way you can see how he is with his wife... and how your wife acts around his...

    BUT most important... if your wife does have a crush.. she will see him with his family...

    Best of luck to you!
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Married, wife still in India - what's the filing status [ 1 Answers ]

I came to US in Feb, 2008 and this is my first time filing taxes. I am married and my wife is still in India and she has never been to US but she has a valid H4 Visa and H4 stamp on passport. Now can I file under Married Joint filing status? Or What status should I use? Thanks in advance

Wife on dependent visa and husband dies, can wife stay in UK? [ 1 Answers ]

Husband worked in UK for 7 yrs and wife has worked here about 5. Wife is on dependent visa. Husband got seriously ill and died recently. Is wife allowed to still stay in UK? What should she do to be able to stay? Can she apply for permanent residence? Husband is buried to UK and wife would like to...

Does he really want to be with me. [ 2 Answers ]

Hello.ive been going out with this guy for 2 years. Everyday of the week we get into fights and arguments and when were together were just happy and we enjoy our self's. He has even taken me to his family partys and he introduced me to all of them and his baseball coach.his friends are gagnsters...

I broke up with him, but want him back.yet still HAVE hung ups on my ex [ 1 Answers ]

I have been dating my childhood best friend for slightly over two months. He lives on another continent. We always talked everyday. About ten days ago we had an argument over my keeping in touch with my ex who until now, (five months later ) refuses to go away... I told my boyfriend that perhaps it...

I'm don't want to lose him [ 4 Answers ]

I’m really worried…because recently I introduced my boyfriend to one of my mates, and now he talks to her more than he does to me. A few days ago I told him we never speak anymore and we got into an argument, I told him how I felt with him flirting with my mate and he said I was being immature. But...

View more questions Search