[paula1969-2008]

My partner of 2 years has gone off sex, although he watches porn on PC, I could walk round naked but he doesn't like naked women's bodies, when we did have sex it had to be with my clothes on but bottom half off anf from behind, what the hell am I doing wrong, I've tried talking to him about it but he just shouts at me.. please help

[Synnen]

If he's shouting at you for having a conversation about something you're missing, then maybe it's time to kick his butt to the curb.

[Justwantfair]

Why are you still in this relationship?

Do you appreciate this degrading behavior?

Why don't you value yourself enough to know he is treating you like trash?

Why have you been there for two years??

[smoothy]

Do you want to know what your are doing wrong? I'll tell you.


#1. You are picking losers to go out with.
#2. You are allowing yourself to be treated this way.
#3. You keep coming back for more.

[Choux]

The guy is abusing you.

Move on immediately, like tomorrow if you can't leave tonight.

Then, go to therapy and talk about why you accept abuse. You can make your life happy, girl, not misery! That is the purpose of life... find out how to be happy. :)

Best wishes,

[roxypox]

Yes, this is not good at all. You need to move out and move on. If he is refusing to have a conversation about it and you can only have sex the way you describe then he has some serious issues and you don't need to take it! good luck!

[hollylovesbrandon]

I agree. But also, consider the fact that he might be gay. Which might be why he doesn't like to see you naked. But it really doesn't matter at this point because you need to get out!