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armywifebondank · Feb 28, 2009, 01:40 AM

My husband and I are newlyweds, and I want to give him something special for his birthday. I'm thinking something sexual but I have no Ideas. Researching it online doesn't help much because you type sex and porn pops up every which direction. I really want to do something great for him. He's turning 21 so any ideas PLEASE let me know. I'm a sexual person so don't be afraid of being too graphic!!

Thanks So Much!:o

Aliena · Feb 28, 2009, 04:12 AM

You just have to be romantic in your own way.plan something that you know he'll like.it will come by itself,there's no need to search it on the net.
Just be romantic! do whatever you feel like to make him 'excited'..

Good luck

adam_89 · Feb 28, 2009, 04:39 AM

Well, are you into a lot of sex play or role playing or that type of thing. Maybe find out what his fantasys are instead of looking to the internet for help. I'm sure he will be open about it if you guys are pretty sexual. Well, you are married, so I am sure you guys can talk about anything. Just talk to him nonchalantly about it. Then surprise him with it.

Maccaroni · Feb 28, 2009, 02:08 PM

I agree. Men all seem to have a different thing that really does it for them. School uniform or little girlie pink outfits do it for some, where others will get off on leather or red lace. A popular one is wearing a skirt out to dinner with no knickers on. So simple but oddly effective! Find out what he likes and then go for it. Which country are you from by the way? X

shyfoxie · Mar 10, 2009, 01:53 PM

I wore a normal pair of jeans to a movie date, but with a hole in the knee. When I sat down in the passenger seat of his car, he noticed through the hole that I was wearing fishnets.
He couldn't wait to get me home and see what I was wearing.

Be creative, and try to think of what he'd like. Randomly wear something sexy to bed so when he pulls back the covers he gets a niiice surprise. Make breakfast in nothing but an apron (no bacon! Grease=ouch!. true story LOL ). Randomly act out a fantasy you would be interested in helping him fulfill.

Be spontaneous, and be specific to him (fave colours, scents, positions, music, things he loves hearing etc)

And always make sure he gets an actual present, even if the sex is the main gift.

adam_89 · Mar 10, 2009, 01:58 PM

ShyFox gives some pretty good advice!

artlady · Mar 10, 2009, 02:01 PM

Well the french maid who will do ANYTHING the master asks never gets old.Remember men are visual so get the costume and then tell him you will be *at his service*.Tell him you don't speak the language very well but you understand directions well.
Tell him to instruct you.
This way,you are not speaking and he is running the entire show.His fantasy!