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    beeayoutifulove Posts: 10, Reputation: 2
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    Feb 5, 2009, 11:24 PM
    He told me he wanted me to try to get him back-was he hinting at something else?
    My ex has finally admitted his reason for leaving me is because I never made him do anything-I always let him win. If I really wanted to go somewhere and he didn't, we didn't go. I am very much a people pleaser, if he said he wanted me to make him go, I would have done it.. I thought it made him happy doing what he wanted. But it became boring for him.

    In finally admitting this, he said he wanted me to try to get him back but he's "not going to try to win me back." He repeated himself a few times over. Yesterday (before he admitted that) I told him the only way we would get back together was if he tried to win me back.. but he knows all he'd really have to do is ask. Was he hinting that he wanted me to make him win me back?
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Feb 5, 2009, 11:41 PM

    How old are you, and why are you two playing these games with each other?
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    Feb 6, 2009, 12:46 PM

    We are 19 and 20, were engaged for a year. He's always been like this.. plays these little games I mean.
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    Feb 6, 2009, 12:51 PM

    Head games,what a waste of time and they bring nothing but confusion and they rarely ever do anything but backfire.
    When someone plays games ,it impossible to know what they are saying.
    Stand up for yourself,never be any ones doormat and don't be a party to his nonsense. Games are for children,tell him that.See if that is assertive enough for him.
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