[bigblackballa1]

OK.. This is how it goes.. Me and my girl have been going out
For 1 year and almost 11 months now... Everything was great and
Recently there were rumors about her cheating on me but all of that was
Cleared up.. we found out that the rumors weren't true and all that good
Stuff... but ever since then you know I've been a little more watchful.. I
Watch her and I know I shouldn't... But I don't make it obvious at all...
I do it when she isn't looking... About a week ago we had an argument
About many things... one of the things is the fact that she doesn't
Have much time for anyone or anything... well she always hangs with her
Best friend but doesn't really "have time for me"... she feels that we
Need to take a break because she feels "suffocated" she also said that I have a middle school mind and I'm not ready for a serious relationship... She says I'm her
Heart and that she doesn't know what she would do without me but we can't be together right now... I've been giving her lots of space... I don't call or text... she has text me a
Few times... she even sent a pic of herself in a new bathing suit...
One time she poked fun after I said something to someone and said its because
He wants to be single... and gave me a smurk... we didn't speak for
About 3 days and I can tell that she missed me... but I'm just not
Completely sure... In about 2 months I'm doing something reall special for our
Anniversary weekend.. with a promise ring, a hotel, dinner, a car
Rental.. you know.. all the good stuff.. haha.. and I was going to tell her
About it earlier the day she decided to take a break to make her feel
Sorry (I was real mad but I couldn't show it) she was like "why would you
tell me about it now??".. so it looks like she's planning on coming
Back... but she's always going out to clubs with her friends and stuff...
And I'm worried she might find someone else more exciting or something... It has been almost 3 weeks since we went on break and I surprised her by sending her flowers last weekend... she loved them... I don't really contact her... the other day I just texted hey how are you and she said okay and asked me how I was.. and I said great... last night she text me at 430 in the morning saying "i hope u had a better day at school" since the day before I didn't have such a good day because of something that happened at school (nothing to do with her)... she messaged me about my myspace background being two hot girls and was like I thot you didn't like girl on girl action... its not normal for her to message me at all...

[tpreyer]

Seems like you leaving her alone made her run back to you that's A good thing now your in control. I think you were right to watch her, The behavior is kind of peculiar and you want to make sure she's loyal if you are. Not saying she's cheating, She might have just needed space to figure out how she felt. Your pretty smart.