[plant lover]

Hi

I am married to a pilot :) We met at work and I am a flight attendant. Been married for 10 years so I know its not the 7 year ich

I need some help! I know way too much about our work how the pilot cheat on their wife's more then they don't and how not many marriages stay intact. My problem starts there I don't expect my husband to go to work and eat alone on his nights away but I do expect him not to go out one on one with the flight attendants at the cities hot spots have as many drinks that he thinks he needs and stay out till the wee hours of the night. I fly for the day and return home to our beautiful two children that we have :) I am heart sick with his nights out his lies which have been many I don't know what to do, I want to make it work. I have talked to him, not yelled and asked why he feels he needs to do this on his overnights? His I answer is I can't sit in my room alone all night!! He ends up turning it on me and telling me its my fault for what he does... I need some advice before I am too jaded and fly away forever I am sick of crying alone and not doing anything about it PLEASE HELP :rolleyes:

[bustoutking]

You should consider a divorce.. or contracting a disease.. may be in your future..