[musicalgaluk]

Hi,
I'm new to this site, and it was advised by a mate because I feel atm...
Basically I'm a gay female, and met another girl at a party last saturday-i got her number, and we were texting loads-both of us admitting that we are looking for a relationship. We went on a date last Sunday, and it went really well-so we continued to text loads.
On Tuesday I went out with some of my mates and she met with some of hers-we arranged a meet up at a bar. Towards the end of the night, she kissed me, and didn't stop for a long time-i was really surprised by this, as she had been the one who wanted to take things slowly. Since then, she hasn't text as much, and I knew something was wrong-i got a text today saying she wants to be single atm, and doesn't want a relationship (completely diff to what she said b4)
I keep on trying to explain that I don't want a relationship straight away anyway-as I haven't known her very long. I really want to meet to chat about things face to face...
Help?
Laurax

[talaniman]

Take the hint, and back away, as she has changed her mind, for whatever reason. Sorry, I know you had your hopes up.

[neverme]

You don't want someone who doesn't want you, find someone that does..

[redwee74]

She has sent you her answer. She does not want a relationship with you just move on have fun and Good luck. Oh yeah women are confusing but so are us men just got to roll with the punches.

[SimpleguyJoe]

You don't have to move on completely but give her space and time. If she is still worth your time at the end of a few weeks than give her a text or call and go from there. If not then just forget about it.

[Alty]

I have to agree with the others, back off, find someone else, she's changed her mind and she's no longer interested.

There are plenty of fish in the sea, time to start fishing. :)

Good luck.