[willparsons]

Been split up about 2-3 weeks with my girl, she said she needed space and for first week I did not give it her but last week I have. I sent her a text yesterday to se if she OK n she said she been thorugh a lot over weekendn, she asked if I w anted to go out with her and her mate but I said no because 3 a crowd. She then said "ok then i will come see you tomoro" am I getting anywhere if I go see her? Advice xx

[sypher373]

You should only go see her if you are capable of seeing her as only a friend, with no expectations of anything more. If there is the slightest doubt in your mind, its best to err on the side of caution. You need to be prepared for anything, if you are going to see her, and anything could mean her 'mate' is a new boyfriend. Not saying it is, you just better be sure you can handle anything that may happen if you see her.

After 2-3 weeks, I'm inclined to say you'll need quite a bit more time.

[talaniman]

I agree with sypher, and believe your in friends zone and if your cool with that, fine. If you still think your wanting more than being friends then I would give myself more time to get over her. Does mate mean new boyfriend? If it does forget it and her.