[onlymyself]

I don't understand this life.
What is supposed to be good in this life?
-"Friends" talk about you behind your back
-People do everything to destroy you
& a lot of other things that I don't know who can handle them but the worst is when you get your heart broken into pieces and there's no one around to mend it.
Boys don't know how to stay just friends and just want to meet you to go out with you and get what they want
.. if they get it they ignore you and leave you feel rubbish
.. if they don't they do exactly the same

I don't know if there are good people out there... or if there are why do only bad people come to me?
Teenage years can be great but they can be a nightmare
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[ylaira]

If they talk behind your back, so what? As long as you don't do anything to harm other people, ignore them. As for the guys, Boys in their teens starts to experiment. Just don't give in into sex, drugs etc. If they ignore you next day, then let it be. True friends will love you just because they benefit from you.

Nothing people would do because of you. Whatever they do, it's because of the influence of their environment & how they are raised by their parents. Always find goodness in everyone. Most of the time, people are just different from what you are but they are not bad.

[startnewtoday]

Nicely said ylaira. Teenage years are difficult. I remember them. I would have to say that I wish I knew then what I know now. You truly only have yourself, so you need to love yourself but don't forget to love others also. Accept people for who they are, but only surround yourself with those that have honorable morals. Have boundaries for yourself and when someone crosses them, drop them. Learn to forgive, learn to stand up for YOU, and also be honest and upfront about what you expect. If someone chooses to walk away, let them. You will be better off without them. In life you will meet a lot of people, you may hurt some, and some may hurt you. We are all learning and growing daily hence the reason I say forgive people. Some may not " get it " just yet. But you don't have to surround yourself with those people either. Focus on your goals and aspirations in life, make good choices. When times get tough, step back, reevaluate your situation and make changes that are necessary. At the end of the day, you are stuck with you, so surrounding yourself with positive influences and great people is very important.
Now about guys... there are good and bad people everywhere... some are out for themselves, and some will really care about you. Those that will really care about you will be your friend first and never expect anything from you that you are not ready for. Believe in you and also show people how to treat you by keeping those boundaries good and strong.