[nova225]

I met this guy about a month ago; I was soooo attracted to him. When we shared our first kiss I wanted to crawl into a corner, and never come out. He had really bad breathe, and he used toooo much TONGUE!! I couldn't tell him how I felt because I don't like to hurt people feelings, so I stopped kissing him. I really wanted to build a relationship with this guy that's why I stayed around. I haven't called him back after he kissed me 2 weeks ago, because I can't deal with bad breathe and toooo much tongue. When he kissed me (for the last time) I started to gag:eek: , and then I started to throw up:eek: . I told him it was something I ate, and I never saw him again.

I really liked this guy, but now he will always be know as the guy who made me gag and throw up.
I'm I being too critical??

[progunr]

No. You are not being too critical.

But, you are speaking in the wrong direction.

The things you told us, you should have told him. I understand not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings, I suffer the same complex, but sometimes, you just have to be honest without regard to how it may be accepted.

IF you had openly talked about these problems, he may have been totally willing to make some changes in order to stay with you and have a relationship. You have actually caused him more harm by not saying anything than by keeping quiet about it since he has no idea of these problems.

On the other hand, poor personal hygiene is one area that I too am unable to tolerate and if his breath was really that bad, he may be beyond help.

[bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE]

Awww you poor thing! I believe we women have expierenced one of those guys.

If you really like him, don't let bad breath come in the way. There are things to fix that.

Try this: Before you two do your busniess, pull out a piece of gum and say 'I don't like to think I have bad breath but just in case. Would you like a piece?' Hopefully he won't be able to tell that you are hinting towards something.

If you really want to be honest with him then just say it.

And for the tongue issue, try this: When he starts slobbering all over you stop him and say seductivly 'Kiss me this way' and kiss him however you want to. He will get into it, I'm sure.

Good luck sweetie!

[ZigZag07]

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[nova225]

Thanks for the advice.

I've actually offered him a piece of gum before (I'm the gum Queen), but he told me he only crews a certain kind of gum (can't remember the name of it). The gum didn't do any justice for him, and I found that to be very scary.

[bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE]

Maybe he has halitosis then. Hopefully not though!

[Fr_Chuck]

Let me see YOu think not calling him for two weeks and lying to him, make him feel better ? Be honest if you want any relationship

[plonak]

Ok my advise DON'T date the guy!! If you can't even stand kissing him once, and you want to vomit, that is not good for obvious reasons... It seems that you are not sexually compatible with him, if his kiss is that bad, can you imagine if the sex was worse? These red flags should never be ignored in the beginning of a relationship.. I also suggest that if you like his personality, be friends with him, and when you're comfortable with him, gently suggest him seeing a dentist and see what's wrong in there, but I Don't think you should date him

Eh that mans breath has to be really bad to make you almost vomit, uggg poor guy... but mostly poor you!! Lol.. I have a big thing with guy's mouths, if they're not clean I freak!!

[Kia]

Yeah, I agree; just let it go... lol