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Goddard · Mar 21, 2008, 07:06 PM

I think it's because of my looks. I'm not exactly the poster boy for the perfect body. I'm about 5'10" and near 270 pounds. People say I'm nice, caring, etc. I've been single all my life and I'll be 29 this year. I don't know if it's me or maybe women really don't like guys my size.

N0help4u · Mar 21, 2008, 07:08 PM

I know many guys that are your height and weight that have a good relationship.
Are you too picky in any areas?
Many girls aren't into the great bods anyway.

ISneezeFunny · Mar 21, 2008, 07:17 PM

Trust me... it's not the weight.

I've seen girls with baywatch bodies date guys that are so big they can barely walk... and me... being 5'8" and 160 lbs... can't stop staring at both of them.

Have you at least tried to ask girls on dates.. or have you just avoided women in general because you THINK they don't like you?

Goddard · Mar 21, 2008, 08:26 PM

If I saw a woman with a Baywatch body with a guy who was that big I would assume he was wealthy. And yes, I pretty much avoid women. I just assume they're seeing someone.

N0help4u · Mar 21, 2008, 08:34 PM

I am pretty much the same way. I avoid guys and just assume they are 'taken' or they wouldn't be interested

ISneezeFunny · Mar 21, 2008, 08:34 PM

1. It's not always about the looks or the money. Really. It baffles me to this day. Even if it WAS the money, they could have found a good looking guy with money. And the couple I was talking about, they live in my apartment complex with other college students. He drives an old corolla. It's not the money.

2. don't assume they're with someone. Well, even if they ARE seeing someone, until they say the four dreaded words, "I have a boyfriend"... there's no harm in just saying or making light conversation. What's the worst that can happen by asking a girl on a date? Worst that can happen... is she can say no. she may be mean/rude about it, in which case, f her. But really. Go out, meet some girls, talk to them. Don't even ask them out until you want to... there's no harm in just talking.

magprob · Mar 21, 2008, 09:18 PM

Confidence is the key. If you have confidence, they know it.

Allheart · Mar 21, 2008, 10:08 PM

Mag is so right. Always remain true to you... and when that one comes along and likes YOU, well, then she likes the real you... and boy is that a special feeling.

For health reasons only - just start taking 10 minute walks a day. It's just a healthy thing to do physically and actually makes you feel better inside.

I know with most girls, the qualities that you mention, make a girls heart go pitter patter.

Be that guy inside... Don't deny the world of how special you truly are.