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Why is there not a law about emotional abuse?
Why do people take emotional abuse so lightly? Thank you for your concern and advice, I thank God mostly because without him I would not seek help, and for the times no one was there. I am in the process of recovery. I had gone to a hospital for crisis advice three times in this relationship. Recently they referred me to Women in Transition. The therapist there gave me almost two hours of therapy the first time I saw her without charging me one cent. I was amazed at how I had recovered just by seeing her, she gave me a different point of view about things and I felt better about myself, also she saw me again the next day, looking forward to goals, and papers for me to read about abuse related topics. Also I will return to talk to her for more therapy and group therapy as well. (at no charge) I have not talked to the abuser or seeing him for almost two weeks and I feel like I am in a cloud, like I was on a roller coaster ride of emotions and I am not anymore. Like a great weight was lifted from me.
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 Originally Posted by donotrun
Some do not even realise they are being mentally abused until years later and then it is too hard to get out of the relationship. I agree with Scottgem,it is hard to prove as the scars are not visibile to the eyes and camera which proves an abuse occurred or not. But I believe sometimes mental abuse is worse than the physical abuse as it takes that much longer to realise it is abuse and other people to notice the abuse,and try to help those being abused. Here is an excerpt from an interesting article. Please click link to read the rest of the article ---------------------------------------------- http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/...amily_law.html There are three pieces of legislation that govern custody, access and related matters in family court. The Divorce Act (federal legislation) makes no reference to violence even in those sections dealing with custody and access. The Children's Law Reform Act (provincial legislation), the principal statute used in custody and access proceedings, likewise does not use the word "violence." It states that custody decisions are to be made based on the "best interests of the child". A parent who has been proven to be physically abusive to the children is not likely to get custody of the children. Increasingly, physical violence by an abusive partner against the other may be considered, but this is not yet the case with emotional abuse. The only legislation that makes overt reference to violence is the provincial Family Law Act, which lists violence as one of the considerations in determining which spouse should remain in the matrimonial home. Presenting a case in family court that relies strictly or primarily on emotional abuse is a difficult task -- in part because of the lack of definition in the legislation, but also because of the attitudes of most players in the legal arena. The environment of the courtroom also does not provide an atmosphere that is conducive to understanding what any form of abuse does to a woman. [The cumulative effects of repeated and ongoing emotional abuse tactics may be reduced to a series of individual acts that, on their own, are not seen as abuse]. For example, an abusive partner isolates a woman from her friends and family, keeps track of her every move, calls her every hour, goes through her purse, listens to her phone calls, makes all the decisions, and convinces the children that she is not to be respected or listened to. ----------------------------------------- |
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Originally Posted by ScottGem
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Originally Posted by ScottGem
Though I have a relative whom I hardly see who is a Judge in another state, usually he is too busy to do much for me because of these corny laws and because of his location. |
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You really don't seem to have an understanding of our legal system. Personal lawyers don't prosecute in criminal cases. If a criminal act has been committed the District Attorney's office prosecutes, so it doesn't cost you anything. If you feel a crime has been committed against you, you go to a prosecutor or the police to report it. If you think the police are corrupt, then go to the district attorney's office.
But don't say there aren't laws when you have done nothing about filing charges. |
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