[Allheart]

Action - First, Fix is a young lady, not a "he" and is one to be admired just from my little bit of interacting with her.

I too think you posted off the hip so to speak and it came off as harsh and judgemental. You are entitled to your opinion absolutely, but, if it is going to be that strong of an opinion, it would be better to base it on actual facts then maybe one or two post you may have read of Fixs.

She really is going to be missed as her post were some of the most insightful and helpful ones I think I may have read to date at AMHD. There have been many incredible ones and the ones from Fix are right up there.

Action, your post came off flip and harsh, one that Fix really didn't need nor deserve.
Perhaps you didn't mean to come off that way, but nevertheless, that's how it came across to me.

[excon]

Later fix:

I enjoyed your company.

excon

[ActionJackson]

Action,
The Dateline stuff is based on IM chats where the suspected predator agrees to meet at an agreed upon location. More like a sting operation.

In this case I don't believe anyone's life was in danger at all, nor did anything illegal happen; it was more a case of being very uncomfortable and he selected this course of action as a solution.

Good enough! I shall concern myself with other matters.

[ActionJackson]

Okay Action. Keep defending your right to be rude and tell people what they must do in life in your inimitable way. You say potato and I say potahto. I was always taught that you don't need to be rude to get your point across, and "sometimes" it is better to keep your "opinions" to yourself.

So far, every one of your posts to me has been "rude" while none of my posts to you have been "rude." Are you prepared to take your own advice?

[RubyPitbull]

No Action, not every one of my posts has been rude, and your responses to my posts have not been free of rudeness as you claim. I will grant you that it is rather hard to find a nice way to tell someone they have been rude.

[ActionJackson]

No Action, not every one of my posts has been rude, and your responses to my posts have not been free of rudeness as you claim. I will grant you that it is rather hard to find a nice way to tell someone they have been rude.

Okee dokee then. You have told me that I'm rude in a nice way and in a rude way. Hopfully you're done finding ways.

[RubyPitbull]

Yes, I am done finding ways. It is a shame that you still choose not to acknowledge what I, and others, have been trying to say to you here and that it is more important to you to prove your point and have the last word. This is not a thread that is open to people's opinions and advice on what she should do about her situation. It is a post created by Fix to say goodbye to those here that she found friendships with. If you have experience with other help sites, then you know how the system works. If you don't, please click on the link in my signature. There are many posts here that do invite opinion and debate. They can be quite lively and fun. I am sure that at some point, we will find each other on one of them. Cheers.

[ActionJackson]

Yes, I am done finding ways. It is a shame that you still choose not to acknowledge what I, and others, have been trying to say to you here and that it is more important to you to prove your point and have the last word. This is not a thread that is open to people's opinions and advice on what she should do about her situation. It is a post created by Fix to say goodbye to those here that she found friendships with. If you have experience with other help sites, then you know how the system works. If you don't, please click on the link in my signature. There are many posts here that do invite personal opinion and debate. They can be quite lively and fun. I am sure that at some point, we will find each other on one of them. Cheers.

Bye bye, Fix

[Tuscany]

Just and observation on my part.

Fix did not create drama, she said good bye.

The drama was created by the "drama hater" ActionJackson.

Just let Fix do what she needs to do to protect herself and those she loves.

[startover22]

I would love to say goodbye to Fix... Goodbye, you have wonderful ways of saying things! Hugs to you Fix...

[DrJ]

way to hijack an otherwise heartfelt thread. keep the arguing in the proper place.

Fix.. not that I knew you well, but I do hope that you will fix, not only what you broke, but this as well. :) The best of luck to you and I hope, though we may never know it, that we see you here again. ;)

[J_9]

Oh, Fix, I just now found this post. I am so sorry that you have to go. It saddens me that someone could do this to another person.

I will miss you Fix, if you do read this though, please feel free to PM me. You really are a great gal. Good luck in your future and I hope your boyfriend feels better. LOL

[Myth]

Bye Fix. You will be sorely missed. Your advice was wonderful and caring. Hugs. Till next we meet.