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Apr 1, 2007, 10:21 PM
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If he doesn't appreciate you why pursue the dead end Mo Fo, since you can do a lot better. Move on and find your happiness. Let the past go and look to the future. Stop wasting time on BS. That ain't love!!
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Apr 1, 2007, 11:18 PM
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I know that things are tough now, and they are going to be for a while. Just because you broke up does not mean you will be able to just forget. Breaking up and not being with someone is a detachment process, it will take time and there are certain stages that you must go through in order to get over this pain properly. Just take the time now to lick your wounds. There's no rushing this. Find a good trusty friend and talk to them daily and have them remind you of why this is for the best, and after all of your heartache has passed and you can think clearly, without major emotions attached, and you still want to try it again, that would be the time to talk to him and see if he is interested, but then again you may decide that it just wasn't what you wanted either.
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Apr 2, 2007, 02:24 PM
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I think I'm going to crack... it's been 3 days and I'm going nuts!
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Apr 2, 2007, 04:13 PM
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Use this time to build a life you enjoy with out him. There are many people out there, and things to do, so get up and get back into the real world and get reacquainted with old friends, or dust off old hobbies, stay busy, and it may take time but you will be able to move forward and leave him alone.
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Apr 2, 2007, 04:36 PM
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I cracked... I called. I tried to sound light hearted and happy. I told him I was calling to see how his weekend was and that I appreciated the message he left on my cell on Friday. So I suppose now I wait. Guna try to stay busy. I hope for my own sanity he does call. God I hate being weak.
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Apr 2, 2007, 04:47 PM
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You really need to accept that this is over and leave him alone for your own healing. Leave the false hope alone as it can only delay your healing process, and work on you.
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Apr 2, 2007, 07:55 PM
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I did the same thing today brokenhearted, I called, and you know what he said? He said "I need some space your starting to overwhelm me even more" and then I realized, if its not over, Im causing it to be over by contact. Im a believer in them coming back to you, but you have to give him time! Like I said, I'm here going through the same thing, maybe next time you want to call, message my question "He wants space I don't" and cool off that way. Nothing you can say can work for you now, let him figure it all out.
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Apr 2, 2007, 08:02 PM
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Well yours answered and I got an answering machine. Which is the lesser of two evils? People are going to ultimately do what they want I guess. I don't think he'll ever come back. Ugh that makes me sad. One day at a time.
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