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    #21

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:32 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by friends 13 View Post
    He said he wanted to have a family with me and marry me.
    The family has been started. When's the wedding?
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    #22

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:34 AM
    When's the wedding?
    Not long before the divorce.
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    #23

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:34 AM
    Wedding first, babies later.
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    #24

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:35 AM
    There will be no wedding. He is already treating her poorly.
    You need to leave this guy. Do you have parents you can move back home with or someplace else to go? This will not get better.
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    #25

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    The family has been started. When's the wedding?
    He said he needs money to buy me a ring first
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    Sep 13, 2013, 08:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by friends 13 View Post
    So I let things go cause I just want to be happy.
    And are you happy?
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    #27

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:38 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by friends 13 View Post
    He said he needs money to buy me a ring first
    No, he doesn't!!
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    Sep 13, 2013, 08:38 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    There will be no wedding. He is already treating her poorly.
    You need to leave this guy. Do you have parents you can move back home with or someplace else to go? This will not get better.
    Yes,I do have parents to go to. I'm only 23.
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    #29

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:38 AM
    How is he going to afford a "ring" when he is paying child support to the other child?

    You should have gotten the ring and said the vows before you agreed to have his child. Now you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Do you accept his abuse or do you move on?
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    #30

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:40 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    And are you happy?
    No I'm not happy not anymore. And what do you mean he doesn't need money to buy me a ring? Is he just lying to me :(
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    #31

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:40 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by friends 13 View Post
    He said he needs money to buy me a ring first
    How is he buying things for the baby? A ring does not cost that much.
    How old are you? This guy is not going to marry you. He would have married you before you got pregnant if that was his intention.
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    #32

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:41 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by friends 13 View Post
    No I'm not happy not anymore. And what do you mean he doesn't need money to buy me a ring? Is he just lying to me :(
    Yes, he is lying to you and stringing you along. No one needs a ring first to get married.
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    #33

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    How is he going to afford a "ring" when he is paying child support to the other child?

    You should have gotten the ring and said the vows before you agreed to have his child. Now you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Do you accept his abuse or do you move on?
    You are exactly right I need to move on
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    #34

    Sep 13, 2013, 08:44 AM
    Yes take your baby and move on. Make sure he pays child support.
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    #35

    Sep 13, 2013, 11:50 AM
    Ask your grandmother for a ring. Tell him it was 'handed down'. Then he has a ring and lost an excuse.
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    #36

    Sep 13, 2013, 11:56 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Ask your grandmother for a ring. Tell him it was 'handed down'. Then he has a ring and lost an excuse.
    Or use a paper ring off a cigar. Or an inexpensive one from Walmart.
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