[Alty]

i had not known this was for adults

We do welcome kids on this site, but the fact is, most of the issues we deal with are adult issues. Frankly, as a mom, I wouldn't be comfortable with my 14 year old or 10 year old reading most of the stuff on this site.

But, if they did come here for advice I know that the regular members, the people I know personally, would give them the best advice they can. That's what we've done for you.

You feel it's a bad site mainly because we really can't help you with the issue you're asking about. The issues you're having have to be handled in person, by you, an adult you trust, a teacher, etc. etc. We can't fix the issues you're having, we can only give advice, and it sounds like you really thought that someone would come along and say "Well, there's this magic way to fix it, and here it is".

We can only give advice, you have to choose what you're going to do about the problem you have, and that's really all on you. We can't fix things if you're not willing to fix it.

Good luck to you. :)