I am 12 years old and most of my friends are teased. One of them has anger problems and the other one is horribly shy. Is there any way to make them better about these things, or do I need to stand up for them?

Is this happening at school? If so, teasing is a form of bullying and should be reported to a teacher, counselor, or an aide. They are all trained to help.

First your friends should be standing up for themselves, and all of you stand up together.

If not, you are no friend if you stand by and do nothing, you are as bad as the person doing the bullying if you could stop it and don't

I do but they just always get mad or cry

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Originally Posted by Fifi17

I do but they just always get mad or cry

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Did you see my answer?

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

Did you see my answer?

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I meant I was replying to the other girl. Sorry! By the way u seem like a great teacher

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Originally Posted by Fifi17

I meant i was replying to the other girl. Sorry! By the way u seem like a great teacher

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So, have you talked to a counselor or teacher about this? And thank you, I care about my students, and other students, too!

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

So, have you talked to a counselor or teacher about this? And thank you, I care about my students, and other students, too!

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I have spoken to my counselor. But they refuse to speak to her. Just consider me as one of your students! :)

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

first your friends should be standing up for their self, and all of you stand up together.

If not, you are no friend if you stand by and do nothing, you are as bad as the person doing the bullying if you could stop it and don't

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:( I am not. I am unpopular. NO one. Listens to me!

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Originally Posted by Fifi17

I have spoken to my counselor. But they refuse to speak to her. Just consider me as one of ur students! :)

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Do you have a teacher you really like and trust?

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

Do you have a teacher you really like and trust?

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Of course! But this project isn't in her class. This project is in the mean teachers class

I meant this class is in my mean teachers.

Whenever she is teased

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

Do you have a teacher you really like and trust?

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Of course! I have two!! :) well I am leaving this website because I feel I should listen to my conscious. I will be leaving next weej

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Originally Posted by Fifi17

Of course! I have two!!! :) well I am leaving this website because I feel I should listen to my conscious. I will be leaving next weej

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Why next week?

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Originally Posted by Fifi17

Of course! I have two!!! :) well I am leaving this website because I feel I should listen to my conscious. I will be leaving next weej

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Why are you leaving? And, by the way, teachers can help you even if they don't teach the class you are having trouble with.

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

Why are you leaving? And, by the way, teachers can help you even if they don't teach the class you are having trouble with.

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I am leaving because why should I listen to people's advice? I should listen to myself

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Originally Posted by Alty

Why next week?

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y does it matter? Srry but I feel like this website is bad

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Originally Posted by Fifi17

y does it matter? Srry but I feel like this website is bad

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Only because you're not getting the answers you want to get. At 12 that's normal. You came here wanting to hear what you believe, wanting easy solutions to not always easy problems. As you get older you'll realize that what you want, or what you think, isn't always right, and that sometimes hearing the opposite of what you want to hear, is the only way to solve your problem.

But really, I'm not surprised that a child your age can't handle being on an adult site.

Good luck to you. :)

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Originally Posted by Alty

Only because you're not getting the answers you want to get. At 12 that's normal. You came here wanting to hear what you believe, wanting easy solutions to not always easy problems. As you get older you'll realize that what you want, or what you think, isn't always right, and that sometimes hearing the opposite of what you want to hear, is the only way to solve your problem.

But really, I'm not surprised that a child your age can't handle being on an adult site.

Good luck to you. :)

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I had not known this was for adults