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ellykat · Jul 23, 2010, 12:53 AM

O you have lost me, sorry! I don't know what a skin is

ellykat · Jul 23, 2010, 12:55 AM

Are u there? Do u want to keep talking or are u tired?

Clough · Jul 23, 2010, 01:01 AM

You seem to be doing just fine here. A "skin" has to do with the way the site looks and operates. If you go to your User Options, you should be able to change the skin that you're using. However, you really do seem to be doing just fine using whatever skin you're already using.

I'm a little bit tired but can still go for awhile. Thanks for asking! :)

Clough · Jul 23, 2010, 01:06 AM

Now, are you still there?

ellykat · Jul 23, 2010, 01:07 AM

In response to *10. I have known this man and his fam for over 5 yrs. This is the type of family so different from my upbringing. They communicate every day with each other. They are the first point of call with each other. They're bloody rock solid. I am blessed having real Mum (we work cleaning at a Motel together)

ellykat · Jul 23, 2010, 01:08 AM

How do we talk again? When u go to sleep/

Clough · Jul 23, 2010, 01:15 AM

I'm still here...

Is your partners' father in a hospital that's near to all of you?

ellykat · Jul 23, 2010, 01:18 AM

U there? What do I call you?

ellykat · Jul 23, 2010, 01:23 AM

Hi, sorry, Im still working my way round talking to someone.. Yes, he is closer now he is in a home. The hospital shut him out, so they put him in a home. 6 weeks free government funded because they know it's their fault he will die. HE GOT mrsa

Clough · Jul 23, 2010, 01:27 AM

Would you mind sharing what the ages are of you and your partner, please?

I'm much older than when my father died. But, I can remember how it affected me when he was dying. Part of any negative ways it affected me was because of my age and lack of experience at the time.

Thanks!

ellykat · Jul 23, 2010, 01:30 AM

Hey sleepyhead! Remember. A bird does not sing to make a sound. A bird sings because it can.

Thank you for listening

Clough · Jul 23, 2010, 01:35 AM

Originally Posted by ellykat

Hey sleepyhead! Remember. A bird does not sing to make a sound. A bird sings because it can.

Thank you for listening

Ha! Have you been spying on me? :)

I'm still listening...

ellykat · Jul 23, 2010, 02:27 AM

Thank you. Not alone. Someone talked to me.

Clough · Jul 23, 2010, 02:39 AM

I'm still listening...

You're not alone!

What time is it where you're at now, please?

Thanks!

KISS · Jul 23, 2010, 04:28 AM

There's plenty of threads on where the SO (Significant Other) get's left out in this sort of situation. The best you can do, is tell him that you will be there for him when he needs you. Let him focus his energies on his father. Your being selfish if you don't. It may continue for a long time during the greiving phase too. Be prepared for that.

I had an aunt who contacted MRSA and passed away quickly.

Now, there seems to be a hint of abuse and police. Explain.