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    Jake2008 Posts: 6,721, Reputation: 3460
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    #21

    May 20, 2010, 05:42 PM
    I would go with option 3, but stop short of adding her to IMing of any kind- for now.

    See if she accepts your request first, then see what happens.

    If you do it the way you said you were going to, after you hit 'send', the ball is in her court, wait for her to respond.
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    #22

    May 20, 2010, 06:10 PM

    Thanks for the great support from all so far.
    I'm with you Jake, I'll add her with the message I said I would, but without mentioning nothing about MSN or wtv, so far. Let's see if she accepts and what will she say, then I come back for the next step :P
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    #23

    May 20, 2010, 06:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Som3Guy View Post
    Thanks for the great support from all so far.
    I'm with you Jake, I'll add her with the message I said I would, but without mentioning nothing about MSN or wtv, so far. Let's see if she accepts and what will she say, then I come back for the next step :P
    Alrighty dude... all the best... hope it works out and let us know how it goes.. :)
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    #24

    May 21, 2010, 03:17 PM

    Why can't you just say, "Hi, I heard you were into fantasy football?". Then go from there.
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    #25

    May 23, 2010, 09:45 AM
    What's up guys. So she accepted my request and answered like this: I know who you are! How are you? Soooo we'll see each other on the next fantasy then."

    Now what... I'm just happy she actually knows who I am...
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    #26

    May 23, 2010, 02:28 PM

    You get to know her, and see if she is as interested as you are, and enjoy the process, be it fantasy football, or a concert, or just sharing a big mac.
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    #27

    May 23, 2010, 04:05 PM

    Yeah I guess I can approach her in person now without having the risk of being pepper-sprayed. LOL
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    #28

    May 23, 2010, 05:58 PM

    Yep, that's the way it works.
    Rather simple isn't it?
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    #29

    May 23, 2010, 08:42 PM
    Excellent!!

    Maybe wait a few weeks and ask her out for a burger.

    Good for you!

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