[myagony1234]

Knowing him very well, I know his style is to send a break up note, go quiet for a period of time, then sloooowly place notes here and there (like I got the text with the prayer for my mom on her bday, the facebook expression, etc.) then come back with a huge apology. His style is also, while on this break, to go onto dating sites, browse, send a couple of interest emails out, then turn it off and contact me.

I am not trying to upset you, you still have strong feeling, will and hope for him.
However Shy,
When a man loves a woman madly, he can do anything to be with the woman, and make it to work FOR ANY COST. You certainly have not seen a love blinded man's capability and force.

Your ex does not love you. He actually plays with you using sweet words and gesture. Why don't you see the picture and accept it?

I will cancel the job interview if the only purpose of getting the job is being close to him. You will be disappointed. If the job gives you a better opportunity for yourself & career, you are willing to build a new life there with/without him, then please pursue.
Good Luck!

[shygirl1201]

Myagony and All, I was right in reading him and he is no longer my ex. He called me today and we are working it out. Long story short, we know each others heart. I knew I shouldn't believe anyone who said it was over and move on.

Thank you all though for your responses. Just know that the standard advice shouldn't be to let someone go.

Happy Easter to all.

[shygirl1201]

Just an update. It's been 3 weeks since my last post.

Indeed I knew my boyfriends heart and things are going wonderfully. We've already now discussed the "M" word.

To all those reading my piece, know that it isn't always over. Only you yourself know in your heart about your relationship. Don't accept a hard line in either direction with advice. Support here can be just that... support. We are all humans and can't read minds but you are the best person to read hearts in your situation.

Good Luck.

[talaniman]

Good luck to you.