Actions speak louder than words. She took the action to break up which is way more telling about how she feels than her ringing you up once every few days.
the only reason why I don't think she is trying to soft the BLOW is because she is calling me I told her to cut ties but she won't have it
When my ex laid the "I need some space line" on me, we still talked once or twice a week for a few months.
Do you know what this accomplished?
Nothing, except allowing her to more easily move on from me and hook up with someone else. Little did I know, that her talking to me, and me going along with it, was just a way for HER to relieve HER guilt she had with herself about breaking up with me.
The hope is still there, because you allow her to stay in your life.
If you have other "options", why waste your time with this girl?