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    mkkeiter Posts: 12, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 21, 2008, 08:03 AM

    OK Tal I have a question for you. So your telling me that if a man is attracted to a women that he can totally be strong willed and not take it anywhere because their neighbors? Is this the way you would be if you were attracted to your neighbor. Do you think this is the real reason nothing is taking place. Please answer that. Some of you writing in have a sensitivity chip where others of you think its so easy to turn off feelings. Im not like a water faucet. And some keep telling me to back off Im not doing anything those episodes were 4 months apart.
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    kctiger Posts: 3,653, Reputation: 1319
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    Nov 21, 2008, 08:17 AM

    You have got to be one of the most angry people I have ever met (over the internet). Why do you take advice so personally?
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    Nov 21, 2008, 08:52 AM

    Why in the world do you think I'm angry? I do not sound angry in that response at all I just asked Tal a question??
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    Nov 21, 2008, 08:52 AM
    So your telling me that if a man is attracted to a women that he can totally be strong willed and not take it anywhere because their neighbors?
    Yes thats what I am saying, and its more than will power, its common sense to think of the consequences of messing with a neighbor, and making things complicated later down the road.
    Is this the way you would be if you were attracted to your neighbor.
    Yes thats the way I would react as getting sex and having drama later isn't worth it, thats how real men think, that care about themselves.
    Do you think this is the real reason nothing is taking place. Please answer that.
    Absolutely.
    Some of you writing in have a sensitivity chip where others of you think its so easy to turn off feelings. Im not like a water faucet.
    We all know that, don't be so sensitive.
    And some keep telling me to back off Im not doing anything those episodes were 4 months apart.
    How do you expect us know that unless you tell us???

    I don't know what kind of guys your use to, but this one obviously is not some dog, who falls under your spell. Not all guys are.
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    Nov 21, 2008, 09:02 AM

    Thank you. I know he's not a dog that's why I like him so much. Thanks Tal for finally giving me the answer I needed to hear. Its too bad I had to meet such a special guy who happens to be my neighbor:( Ill just concentrate on our frienship. Thanks to all who responded
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    Nov 21, 2008, 07:44 PM

    Well first of all, in my opinion, you shouldn't let a man take advantage of you, one day, that man could go a little too far, and you could end up regretting it. And if he loved you back, he wouldn't let you two being neighbors take the best of him. Hopefully if he likes you enough he'll decide to take you back, but if he doesn't, then you may just have to move on. It could be hard on you, but as my parents would say, " there are many fish in the sea..."

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