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ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 17, 2008, 03:53 PM

Originally Posted by ylaira

25 bucks or ex's stuff in ur place?

Please refer to above post where I mentioned my tight budget.

J_9 · Sep 17, 2008, 03:54 PM

Cherish, you have been given some very good answers here. The only problem is that they are not the answers you want to hear. We can't tell you how to MAKE him come get the furniture. We don't know him. And you can never make someone do something they don't want to do.

ylaira · Sep 17, 2008, 03:55 PM

Or if you want, have a nice friend use/store that couch then he'll just pick it up there.

ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 17, 2008, 03:56 PM

Originally Posted by J_9

Cherish, you have been given some very good answers here. The only problem is that they are not the answers you want to hear. We can't tell you how to MAKE him come get the furniture. We don't know him. And you can never make someone do something they don't want to do.

These answers were good, but they are not feasible. So therefore I'm sorry that I cannot take the advice. I honestly don't know him either.

ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 17, 2008, 03:57 PM

Originally Posted by ylaira

Or if you want, have a nice friend use/store that couch then he'll just pick it up there.

If I could find a way to get it there I would do that..

wikedjuggalo · Sep 17, 2008, 04:37 PM

I'd give him a reason to come and get it. Get it or it goes on the street with a sign that says free. But then again that is not the nicest thing to do :D.

ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 17, 2008, 04:40 PM

No, it's not and like I said he has my house key...

wikedjuggalo · Sep 17, 2008, 04:42 PM

Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma

No, it's not and like I said he has my house key...

Ahh I failed to see that part. You stuck between a rock and a hard place. Good luck :D sorry my opinion was not an option

talaniman · Sep 18, 2008, 10:21 AM

C-mama, lets be honest for a second, as we know your hurt, and the furniture is not the issue here. Your feelings are, and your trying so hard to hold onto something, you should really let go of.

Whatever your problems are, your solution is simple. Put the furniture outside, cover it with a tarp, and get a male friend to change your locks. OR,
Don't know if its legal, but technically the furniture has been abandoned, and you can sell it for enough cash, to get your locks changed.

That's the first step in stepping away from this situation and letting the emotional dust settle.

Now you can use any excuse you want, but letting go, is where you start to heal, and stop making a big deal out of the small stuff, and dealing with what's important. YOU!

ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 18, 2008, 08:41 PM

I'm not hurt, because I am no longer in love with him. My feelings have nothing to do with his couches. I texted him and told him they need to be gone Friday morning and to leave the key under the mat when he's done. If they are not gone by then they will be sold.

ISneezeFunny · Sep 18, 2008, 08:56 PM

A simple message to him saying that you really can't have his furniture there after Saturday, as you have new furniture coming in, and that if it's still there by Sunday, you'll have to put it outside.

Along with the message, tell him that you're going to need the key back when he comes on Saturday to pick up his furniture.

ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 18, 2008, 09:05 PM

Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

A simple msg to him saying that you really can't have his furniture there after Saturday, as you have new furniture coming in, and that if it's still there by Sunday, you'll have to put it outside.

Along with the msg, tell him that you're going to need the key back when he comes on Saturday to pick up his furniture.

My post before yours: I'm not hurt, because I am no longer in love with him. My feelings have nothing to do with his couches. I texted him and told him they need to be gone Friday morning and to leave the key under the mat when he's done. If they are not gone by then they will be sold.

That's what I did... Silly boy. I refuse to be walked all over.

ISneezeFunny · Sep 18, 2008, 09:05 PM

Attagirl.

*patpat*

... so... um... you're single, huh? ;)

ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 18, 2008, 09:06 PM

I just thought I should say this. I'm sorry if I was short with anyone on this post. It was not okay. I shouldn't take my irritation out on you guys. I'm irritated at him, not you all. Thank you for the great advice, and hopefully his things will be gone tomorrow. Again, very sorry.

asking · Sep 18, 2008, 10:26 PM

Sounds good. I was going to suggest posting the furniture on craig's list and giving him a deadline to come get it. Then if he doesn't come get it by then, use the money you get from selling the furniture to pay a locksmith to change the locks.

ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 18, 2008, 10:30 PM

Originally Posted by asking

Sounds good. I was going to suggest posting the furniture on craig's list and giving him a deadline to come get it. Then if he doesn't come get it by then, use the money you get from selling the furniture to pay a locksmith to change the locks.

I'm not trying to be vindictive. I just want his things gone.

asking · Sep 18, 2008, 10:34 PM

Who said vindictive? :) You said you had no feelings about him, so this is purely a business decision. If the price is right, someone will come get the furniture before Sunday, either your ex or someone else.

ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 18, 2008, 11:06 PM

I've already taken care of it.

talaniman · Sep 19, 2008, 05:22 AM

I knew you would work things out. Good Luck, moving forward.

ChihuahuaMomma · Sep 19, 2008, 09:37 AM

Than you Talaniman!!