[kulek]

My country is Turkey. How I know we have no such cultural thing.

Thing happened two years ago. I met this girl in a place where I worked. Everyday she come to me. I liked her and I said that I want to be her friend and she said that she liked me too. We have about 3 month relationship. Then when we entered to university she said that she don't want to continue our relationship. I said her that I like her and don't want to loose her. She said that she don't wants relationship and we stopped our relationship. After it I never call her. Then some month ago she come back to me and said that she wants me back. I said that I don't want her anymore. A few days after it some boys said me that she love me and I must love her too. If I will not do it myself they will force me. And now I'm under pressure it. Several times I said that I don't want her anymore. But she don't want to understand that I don't love her anymore.

[smokedetector]

Tell her you've moved on. Those boys have no power over you. They can't tell you who to love.

[N0help4u]

Tell her it was her decision to leave you and now she can live with her choice.
What do these guy friends of hers think they are going to do to force you to like her.
The only thing I can think if they really could force you to be with her is to be somebody that she doesn't want then she can break up with you again.

[talaniman]

Call a cop, or police.

[Chery]

There are no 'cultural issues' in Turkey?? OK, if you say so. My Turkish friends here tell me different.

If she gets her family and friends involved and will not believe you when you say you don't want anything to do with her - you are shaming her and you know it, even if you are justified. But she feels shamed and has her friends on her side. In this case it does not matter if she broke with you first... she has more support though.

The only thing I can suggest here is that you talk to her family and friends... and keep a lot of your own friends around you - and maybe get them to talk to her. You need to clear this up or continue to live in fear.

The police will not get involved in affairs of the heart and cannot protect you from retribution from her friends, so you need to get help or move.

Sorry this happened, but it takes two to get into trouble, just be more careful next time.

Good luck.

[kulek]

Thank you all. I really don't need her. Hope it will stop some time.