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Forced love.
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Have anyone here ever been forced to love somebody? What the forced love is? Can some one be forced to love? |
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How can you be forced to love someone? I can see being forced into marriage, but not love.
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I'm completely agree with you. But it happens to me.
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How are you forced into love?
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There are somebodies which puts pressure upon me to love her.
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If you have no feelings for her then tell her you are not interested.
She can not force you to like her. If you force yourself to like somebody you will be miserable. How old are you and how old is she? |
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Both 20. Agree with you. I'm looking for a way to break free.
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Break free from what?
What has she gotten you into so far? Just coaxing you so far or what? |
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We fall apart 2 years ago. But it continues yet. Seems like never ending cycle. She fools me in anywhere. I told her that I don't want her at several times. But now I'm forced to love her.
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You are not forced to love her unless you start going out with her and giving her the impression that you DO care. Avoid giving into her. You fell apart a couple years ago you will again. If she is 'forcing you' she probably hasn't learned from before and will be the same.
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That's not love, that's stalking and should be dealt with by the authorities. Why are you letting her do this to you??
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Time to got to No Contact. Tell her the truth, that you don't love her and want to move on, and then do it! Stop trying to be or do something that you don't want to. Move on and tell her it's over. How long are you going to let this last, until you two get married?
Good luck. |
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 Originally Posted by kulek
If it is a cultural issue, maybe you could run away to another country and start over. If it is a family pressure issue, I would still try to find another country in which to start over. You don't need this type of terrorism in your life and nobody has a right to force you into doing anything you are against - no matter where you are. Give us some more information and maybe we can find a more definitive solution for you. Good luck dear, and stay with us. 
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Altenweg, she knows that I don't love her and don't want her back. I told it year ago. That is why I say that they are forcing me to love her. Only things she do is fooling me everywhere.
Chery, I think it can happen to everyone of us. I regret that it happened to me. |
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Who is forcing you?
What are they forcing you to do besides wanting you to go with her? |
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Where are you posting from? What country?
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Originally Posted by kulek
Just one more thing.. tell her you are gay and maybe that will solve your problem. |
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I have to agree with Chery. You aren't answering the questions we've asked, and we need that info in order to give you an informed accurate response.
Where do you live? Is this a cultural thing? Is this an arranged relationship? Until we get some answers, we cannot give you one. Good luck. |
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Sounds to me like he is just feeling pressured and obligated by some of the comments he made
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Originally Posted by N0help4u
OP, we can't tell you what to do, especially since you aren't willing to do what we advise. The balls in your court, only you can tell her that you are done, only you can end the relationship and only you can move on. We can't do that for you. If you feel pressured and trapped, then you have to break free. Good luck. |
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