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    Gofercakes Posts: 19, Reputation: 3
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    #21

    Aug 9, 2007, 03:48 PM
    But sometimes I also feel like I trie to be happy so she knows I can live with out her but when she sees me happy it seems like she's happy that I'm happy and is willing to let go but if I act sad it drives her away... its like a vicious circle
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    #22

    Aug 9, 2007, 04:16 PM
    Uh no.

    If she's happy that you are happy its flippin over. Over. Period.

    You are using your being sad as a reason for her to stay??

    That's screwed up manipulation.

    Grow the hell up. Grow a pair.

    Its hard. It hurts. But don't mindfu#K her cause it keeps her close.

    Yes I'm being harsh. You need to be a man. Be an adult. Stop with the mind games. You are only screwing yourself and her over with them.
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    #23

    Aug 9, 2007, 04:19 PM
    You need to chill I'm not saying I manipulated her like that she's the one still coming back when I let go I let got for the last week and she started with her whole myspace blog I didn't manipulate her at all
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    #24

    Aug 9, 2007, 04:22 PM
    I give up.

    Time to unsubscribe from this post. Going nowhere and never going to.

    Good luck and goodbye.
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    #25

    Aug 9, 2007, 08:14 PM
    We're not going to tell you what you want to hear, we have no miracle cures, we have only the truth and experience... take it or leave it...
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    Sep 28, 2007, 02:03 AM
    Hi this is my first time ever on this site I was looking for a way to "win my girl friend back":( bad idea on Google when this site poped up and am I ever glad it did because Iwas just like gofercakes sad and I wanted her back so badly because I two am young just turned 18 :) and well I was really looking for a way to win her back I came on this site vary sad but after reading what every one has been saying I relize that I have been doing all the wrong things and I would really like to thank mostly KP but all of you as well for helpng me see that I should just leave it alone but the only thing is that I am still going to be her friend lol and that you should know that you at least helped one person with this whole thing :D and that I am vary vary happy now THANK YOU SO VARY MUCH for everything you said
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    Jiser Posts: 1,266, Reputation: 281
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    #27

    Sep 28, 2007, 07:45 AM
    Hey reality check. Get a life. You don't win anyone back. Get a life happy by yourself. That is far better! 16/17 common... Be realistic here. Sorry!!
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