Ex wants space we keep playing mind games
Hey this is my first post on this site...
Me and my girlfriend had been dating for about 7 months and hooking up for two more afterwards (im 17 she's 16, I know were young lol) things were great for the first 5 I know neither of us were ever happier, we were also each others first sex partners... This girl was absolutely OBSESSED with me for the whole time we were together and I loved her in return, she would call me like six times a day... than everything changed out of no where... We started fighting a lot after about 5 or 6 months and eventually on 7 months we mutually agreed; although I brought it up, on a break, this was towards the end of the school year... we hooked up for two months afterwards and were still basically dating as we hadn't even kissed anyone else for those two months... I went on a school summer trip and hooked up with a girl there... she found out and a week or so later hooked up with a boy... all of the sudden things are changing before she said no matter what she knew we would always wind up together again, now she says she doesn't know what is going to happen... she constantly cries over me but doesn't want to be together right now... I've tried everything so far we went to the movies and talked I kissed her but things still were bad I avoided her at a party and she basically begged for attention... when I gave it to her she cried her eyes out because she's says she loves me but doesn't know what she wants... she told her friend in secrecy that she loved me to death but just wanted this last month of summer to her self she just wanted to enjoy the last month and have fun with no strings attached or any drama but she thought we would start talking again when school started... recently me one of her friends and her friends boyfriend and one of my good friends went somewhere were the girl was supposed to go but was replaced obviously by my friend since we had fought... now she post "myspace "stuff saying how she will always love me but theirs a time to let go that she misses me constantly but knows its for the better for both of us its like her feelings change everyday... sometimes it seems like she has to force herself to cut us off and sometimes it seems like when she hears I'm happy she's happy that I'm happy and is willing to sacrifice and cut it off... I just want to know what she really wants and what is really going to happen... I avoided her for a while but its hard, I'm afraid if I cut things off completely and don't talk to her at all like so many people on this site say to do than she will just let us go I know she still really loves me and is always thinking about me but she is very strong willed and will do what she thinks is right I want things to turn out good in the end for both of us together... but I've tried everything I'm so lost on what to do now... we were supposed to go out sometime this week I don't know whether I shuld even take her or not... please any help or advice down to the simpliest detail... thank you! :)