[neverme]

You say this isn't the first time he left you hanging on plans?

If you allow someone to treat you in a manner you regard as unfair or unacceptable because they 'love' you, they WILL do it again and YOU will be the one hurt and confused.

[plonak]

Ok so I haven't read all the posts so forgive me if I repeat anything..

My ex boyfriend was like that.. he would bail on me or "over sleep" and I would go to his house pounding on his door trying to wake him up thinking he's dead because I see his car in the drivway..

Let me tell you.. it got real old.. I really think this is a personality type that both our guys have (he's my ex now)-- they are flaky and they don't appreciate what they have..

Take a real hard look at your relationship.. maybe he had a girl inside his room, and didn't want you to see her.. maybe he's just a heavy sleeper, and maybe he's just really really inconsiderite..

Want to know the last straw for me? I was soposed to hang out with my boyfriend (now an ex) when he got off work, I was waiting for the text telling me when to come over and got none, so I went to his house anyway to hang out, figuring he forgot to text me.. I go to his house and see his car in the driveway and his lights are off in his room but I could tell his TV is on and the blinds were closed (he was on the second floor) I try calling his name, calling and calling and nothing

.. So I knock on the door and his roommates let me in, I go up to his room and see him watching a movie and there's this F***ing blonde sitting in bed watching the movie with him.. He apparently was getting back at me for something he was mad about.. I kicked his a$$ to the curb! I so didn't deserve treatment like that!! Just remember this is who they are, that won't change!!