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Alty · May 26, 2009, 04:36 PM

Originally Posted by Steve1010

o wow, my heart just dropped.. she just added that guy she slept with a couple months ago on fbook :( omg

And if you hadn't been watching her, stalking her, you wouldn't know, would you?

Seriously, you need more help then we have to give, or at least more then I have to give. Everything that's said goes in one ear and out the other.

Take care.

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 04:36 PM

Why does it make sense! She just added him as a friend!Q WHAT IS GOING ON HERE!

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 04:37 PM

Why would she add him? Why. She said he like had sex w her and she wasn't aware and didn't want it

liz28 · May 26, 2009, 04:39 PM

You can resue her but you can resue yourself.

You need to work on healing yourself because you are making yourself sick and the next thing you know you have depression.

She is out living and enjoying her life while your misery and your life is being turned upside down.

Maybe you should get some counseling because your having problems letting her go because your chosing not to.

How much longer do you want to stay in this funk? How much longer are you going beg and plead for someone to be with you?

She isn't the only girl out there you know you have a lot of options.

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 04:43 PM

Why would she add him... why after breaking w me. Then saying she loves me.. and now won't answer. And was hinting about being w others all along.. was she cheating?

Alty · May 26, 2009, 04:45 PM

Is anyone else thinking troll?

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 04:48 PM

Troll?

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 04:48 PM

Please I need support here.. I feel so horrible and hurt the worst I've felt. Someone please

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 04:49 PM

She's not answering me either...

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 04:51 PM

Now she said I don't have a thing with him, nor do I like him one single bit

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 04:53 PM

She said he's been adding her for months, and she finnally just accepted it

liz28 · May 26, 2009, 04:55 PM

Yes Alty I am beginning to think so.

Steve take a chill pill and sit back to catch your breathe because your rambling and rambling on.

Are you even listening? Your letting this girl take over your life.

Get some counseling asap!

Call the nineline at 1-800-999-9999.

Alty · May 26, 2009, 04:55 PM

You want help, fine. Go back to page one of this thread, read every post, every bit of advice that you received, then think about it.

If you do all of that and actually listen to the advice you get instead of treating this thread like a chat room play by play of what you're girlfriend is doing, then you'll be fine.

Or you could continue doing what you're doing, driving yourself crazy looking at her Facebook, watching the phone to see if she's texted and continue to ignore all the advice we have given.

Why would any of us stay when you won't listen anyway?

N0help4u · May 26, 2009, 04:57 PM

Originally Posted by Steve1010

now she said i dont have a thing with him, nor do i like him one single bit

That doesn't make any sense.

Okay she is telling you she loves you too death BUT

That is like one of those break ups where she tells you I love you but its me that has the problem not you.

Forget it and get over her. She is pulling your strings and not in love.

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 04:57 PM

OK.. then tell me one more time what I should do. And ill do it

Alty · May 26, 2009, 04:59 PM

Originally Posted by Steve1010

ok.. then tell me one more time what i should do. and ill do it

No you won't, all of us have told you, you don't even acknowledge that we've posted, you just come back rambling about her Facebook and texts etc. etc.

I gave my advice, go find it, that will keep your mind off things.

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 05:01 PM

Loook please. I rambled on and on because I thought you guys could identify what she's doing, one more time please tell me what you think.. I promise ill listen please.. anything to make myself feel better

N0help4u · May 26, 2009, 05:03 PM

Originally Posted by Steve1010

ok.. then tell me one more time what i should do. and ill do it

Forget it and get over her.
There is a saying ''let them go and if they come back then it is real.

What she is doing is playing games.
She must not be that in love with you or she would be straight with what she wants or doesn't want.

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 05:04 PM

But she keeps coming back? All the time!

N0help4u · May 26, 2009, 05:05 PM

Then you have to be the strong one and tell her that she is playing too many games and you don't want the games so you feel it is time to do no contact for at least two months or until she can be honest with herself and you about what she wants.