[joypulv]

Good for you for asking. You do know, somewhere deep inside you, why you are so egotistical (not egoistical, which we all are - we all have an ego). You are your best analyst and best judge. We can only go by what you say. When you understand yourself better, you will be able to be more responsible for your actions, and not say 'I don't know why I am the way I am.'

So start with what your parents are or were like. How did your father treat your mother? How did each of them treat you? Second, do you live in a culture where there is a double standard about women?

[frank1323]

Good for you for asking. You do know, somewhere deep inside you, why you are so egotistical (not egoistical, which we all are - we all have an ego). You are your best analyst and best judge. We can only go by what you say. When you understand yourself better, you will be able to be more responsible for your actions, and not say 'I don't know why I am the way I am.'

So start with what your parents are or were like. How did your father treat your mother? How did each of them treat you? Second, do you live in a culture where there is a double standard about women?

I live in europe ,I am from average family my parents divorced about 10 years ago ,because of father...

The main problem is that feeling that I owned her although we were broken up , when I found out that she had new realationship I wanted her more than ever!

[joypulv]

If you just 'wanted her more than ever' after she met someone else, you are doomed to repeat this for the rest of your life. You want a bird in a cage, a butterfly under glass, with a pin holding it to a board. You want the right to get angry and even break up with her, and put her in a storage container til you cool off and miss her, days or weeks or months, later, while she does absolutely nothing but cry and wait. That's cruel.

You glossed right over your parents. You were just a kid. I suspect that the way your father acted had a profound effect on you. If you don't want to talk about it, fine, say so. But it might tell you a lot about yourself.
What do you like about your girlfriend? Why do you love her (forgetting your jealousy about other men for a moment).

[frank1323]

If you just 'wanted her more than ever' after she met someone else, you are doomed to repeat this for the rest of your life. You want a bird in a cage, a butterfly under glass, with a pin holding it to a board. You want the right to get angry and even break up with her, and put her in a storage container til you cool off and miss her, days or weeks or months, later, while she does absolutely nothing but cry and wait. That's cruel.

You glossed right over your parents. You were just a kid. I suspect that the way your father acted had a profound effect on you. If you don't want to talk about it, fine, say so. But it might tell you a lot about yourself.
What do you like about your girlfriend? Why do you love her (forgetting your jealousy about other men for a moment).

I love many things ,I love that feeling when she's around me , I like her character
,personality ,I like that she's beautiful. I like that she cares about me and so on :)

Should I be jealous?

[Oliver2011]

I love many things ,I love that feeling when she's around me , I like her character
,personality ,I like that she's beautiful. I like that she cares about me and so on :)

Should I be jealous?

We don't usually answer the same question 18,000 times so I won't. You sound like another OP on here - quite easy to change your name with a new account. Grow up. Until you grow up and stop acting like an 11 year old child you won't have a meaningful relationship. And do this girl a favor and stay away from her so that she can find a man, not a child.