[smkanand]

I guess you and your boyfriend are still not ready to get married. And if you guys have full faith in each other then... there is no place for past or a third person. No matter how good friend she is to you, your future husband is the real important person in your life. Same applies to your boyfriend. So guys instead thinking about other things, focus on your wedding. Are you seeing a marriage, a relationship, future together? Or are you out of focus.

[phenomenal woma]

I guess you and your boyfriend are still not ready to get married. and if you guys have full faith in each other then .....there is no place for past or a third person. No matter how good friend she is to you, your future husband is the real important person in your life. same applies to your boyfriend. so guys instead thinking about other things, focus on your wedding. are you seeing a marriage, a relationship, future together? or are you out of focus.

This is something that came up and is an experience that neither of us has ever dealt with. We both are priorities to one another. That was never the issue. Us thinking about a situation that affects both of us doesn't in any way detract from our future together. It is simply something that came up and was a bit of a shock to us. So your guess was incorrect. We are ready to get married. Your guesses and opinions aren't invalid, however, they aren't fact either. They are simply... your own. I understand that people can not fully understand any situation from the outside looking in and especially when they don't know any of the persons involved. I do appreciate you taking time out to give me your take on things.