Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    dwh26's Avatar
    dwh26 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Feb 3, 2013, 09:36 AM
    We're on a break but still live together?
    Ok so basically she originally asked me for a break and I said OK and we slowed down. Then she says she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now and needs time to her self so with all my might I tell her OK and she doesn't have the strength to break up with me so we Agree not to see other people and I break up with her. The big problem IM having with this is she still lives with me and we still sleep in the same bed. I don't know what to do. Need opinions on what's truly going on.
    Wondergirl's Avatar
    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
    Jobs & Parenting Expert
    		  
    #2

    Feb 3, 2013, 09:59 AM
    She wants a break, then she moves out.
    dwh26's Avatar
    dwh26 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Feb 3, 2013, 10:12 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    She wants a break, then she moves out.
    But she doesn't want to and IM to kind hearted to make her . She has nowhere to go.
    Wondergirl's Avatar
    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
    Jobs & Parenting Expert
    		  
    #4

    Feb 3, 2013, 10:15 AM
    She can't have it both ways. OR, you can be her doormat.

    Are you hoping she will "unbreak" and love you again if you let her stay?
    Wondergirl's Avatar
    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
    Jobs & Parenting Expert
    		  
    #5

    Feb 3, 2013, 10:27 AM
    She has no friends or family to move in with?
    dwh26's Avatar
    dwh26 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #6

    Feb 3, 2013, 10:39 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    She can't have it both ways. OR, you can be her doormat.

    Are you hoping she will "unbreak" and love you again if you let her stay?
    I honestly don't know what IM doing here. Thus is the first time I've done anything like this before. It's just so hard for me cause she still snuggles with me and IM a sucker for her.
    dwh26's Avatar
    dwh26 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #7

    Feb 3, 2013, 10:41 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    She has no friends or family to move in with?
    Her family won't help her because of her past with them. And she has 1 friend in this town since she stopped doing drugs she gave up her old drug using friends.
    Wondergirl's Avatar
    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
    Jobs & Parenting Expert
    		  
    #8

    Feb 3, 2013, 11:08 AM
    Where is there a "break" in all this? She still lives with you, eats with you, talks with you, sleeps with you, snuggles with you, neither of you date others.

    What is her definition of a "break"?
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Want to break up with him, but we live together. [ 6 Answers ]

I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 and 1/2 yrs now. Things were great until we got an apartment together about a year and a half ago. Now we never have sex, and we feel more like roomates than a couple. If/when we do have sex, I feel nothing for him and its more of a chore than pleasure....

I live with my boyfriend, but I need a break [ 1 Answers ]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year-he's 28 and I'm 23- because my lease was up the second month we were dating, he begged for us to move in together. I knew it wasn't a good idea, but I gave it a shot anyway. It was his first time moving out, prior to that he's lived with his family...

She wants a break and still be able to talk and live in with me? [ 10 Answers ]

Hi I am sure you have heard these questions 100 times but I really some advice now. 9 months ago, I decided to move in with my girlfriend of 1.5 years. We are both at the same university doing different courses. Last week she told me that she wanted a break out of nowhere because she wanted to...

Live-in girlfriend wants a break [ 16 Answers ]

My live-in girlfriend for the past 2 years suddenly wants to take a break. Everything was great up until 2 weeks ago. Suddenly she wants more space (and I'm not the clingy type at all) and wants to go have fun. Well and good... but she wants a 'break' for a month to go back to her parents and...

Trying to break up with live-in boyfriend [ 5 Answers ]

I am divorced and the mother of 2 children aged 15 and 11. I have been living with "Adam" (in my home) for 2 years and we have been together a total of 8 years. Things started to unravel in our relationship when I found out that he's been getting "massages" and meeting women that he's had...

View more questions Search