Ok so basically she originally asked me for a break and I said OK and we slowed down. Then she says she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now and needs time to her self so with all my might I tell her OK and she doesn't have the strength to break up with me so we Agree not to see other people and I break up with her. The big problem IM having with this is she still lives with me and we still sleep in the same bed. I don't know what to do. Need opinions on what's truly going on.

She wants a break, then she moves out.

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She wants a break, then she moves out.

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But she doesn't want to and IM to kind hearted to make her . She has nowhere to go.

She can't have it both ways. OR, you can be her doormat.

Are you hoping she will "unbreak" and love you again if you let her stay?

She has no friends or family to move in with?

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She can't have it both ways. OR, you can be her doormat.

Are you hoping she will "unbreak" and love you again if you let her stay?

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I honestly don't know what IM doing here. Thus is the first time I've done anything like this before. It's just so hard for me cause she still snuggles with me and IM a sucker for her.

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She has no friends or family to move in with?

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Her family won't help her because of her past with them. And she has 1 friend in this town since she stopped doing drugs she gave up her old drug using friends.

Where is there a "break" in all this? She still lives with you, eats with you, talks with you, sleeps with you, snuggles with you, neither of you date others.

What is her definition of a "break"?