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    Dec 12, 2012, 07:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    The problem with distance relationships is you both dream things up about each other that aren't true because you aren't there to know differently...its something you can't avoid doing.

    Then when you finally ARE together you find they aren't what you expected them to be. Both people do this.

    There really is no substitute for actually being there early into a relationship.

    Some things just aren't meant to be....just because you CAN do something doesn't mean its wise to actually do it.
    So you are saying I should just let him go?
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    #42

    Dec 12, 2012, 07:32 AM
    He's lying about not masturbating... either that or he's just plain got issues.
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    Dec 12, 2012, 07:33 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    He's lieing about not masturbating....either that or he's just plain got issues.
    What do you mean?
    Lol what type of issues?:s
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    #44

    Dec 12, 2012, 07:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Nab28 View Post
    what do you mean?
    Lol what type of issues?:s
    He's masturbating or he has mental issues...

    Unless he's a Bhudist Monk... he's masturbating if he isn't having sex with someone...

    And it he isn't then he has mental or behavioural issues.
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    #45

    Dec 12, 2012, 07:36 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    He's masturbating or he has mental issues....

    Unless he's a Bhudist Monk....he's masturbating if he isn't having sex with someone...

    And it he isn't then he has mental or behavioural issues.
    LMFAO.. I will have to believe a dude I guess he's lying then.
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    #46

    Dec 12, 2012, 07:40 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Nab28 View Post
    so you are saying i should just let him go?.
    Yes.. that IS what I am saying.
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    #47

    Dec 24, 2012, 11:35 AM
    :(
    We haven't said a word to one another for the past two days. I want to accuse myself here saying it is my fault. I posted on his Facebook wall he didn't bother replying me. And I don't know what to do. If to keep not saying anything with the hope he will come talking to me! Or speak to him.
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    #48

    Dec 24, 2012, 12:16 PM
    Let him go. It's never going to amount to anything but pain anyway. You are better off finding someone that you can actually be with.
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    #49

    Dec 24, 2012, 12:21 PM
    Exactly... you are going to waste years of your life on this loser that you will never get back, take that time to look for someone closer to you geographically... there are 3.5 billion guys more or less on this planet... and there aren't too many places where there are no guys... everyplace has its share or losers... but keep looking there are good people out there that you can actually see in person s often as you both want.

    Its easy to pretend you are not the kind of person you really are online... its not as easy with you can look them in the eye when you talk with each other.
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    Dec 24, 2012, 12:27 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Exactly....you are going to waste years of your life on this loser that you will never get back, take that time to look for someone closer to you geographically...there are 3.5 billion guys more or less on this planet...and there aren't too many places where there are no guys...everyplace has its share or losers...but keep looking there are good people out there that you can actually see in person s often as you both want.

    Its easy to pretend you are not the kind of person you really are online....its not as easy with you can look them in the eye when you talk with each other.
    What if he does come back talking to me, what do I do? Cause I believe it ain't worth it. I have been told a lot of times p.s We Skyped a lot of Times. We figt a lot. I mean it feels real and unreal at the same time.:(
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    #51

    Dec 24, 2012, 12:31 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    Let him go. It's never going to amount to anything but pain anyway. You are better off finding someone that you can actually be with.
    Less pain if we ain't talking?😱
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    #52

    Dec 24, 2012, 12:49 PM
    Less pain if you stop ALL contact... its easier to get someone out of your mind if they aren't constantly on you mind by talking with them.

    Think of it like pulling off a bandage... its better to rip it off fas and the discomfort is over faster.t.. than do it slow and feel every hair come out by the roots one by one...
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    Dec 26, 2012, 10:42 AM
    Wow, this online long distance relationship is so unhealthy at many levels and has little to do with reality. Its totally make believe as only cyber love can be.
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    Dec 26, 2012, 10:47 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Wow, this online long distance relationship is so unhealthy at many levels and has little to do with reality. Its totally make believe as only cyber love can be.
    You got that right... she needs to count her blessings she didn't move a long way spending all of her money to do so, only to find out he's NOTHING like he pretended to be... its going to be EASY for her to get out of this one.
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