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Buddy1226 · Sep 20, 2012, 08:21 AM

We dated for only two months. It was an intense two months and we were talking future and saying I love you within weeks. She drank and I did not when we started going out.. Every day she would drink after work and on weekends. I drank with her. We were in love but I didn't like the drinking as I've had issues in the past with drinking and drugs but I did it with her so as not to seem like a square. She was never sloppy or out of control but she kept a beer in the evenings and always on weekends. I always thought it would be our downfall but didn't vocalize it much except on Monday when we were rehashing the weekend and whatever silly spat we had. She also takes aderall and I would sometimes take it with her.

She broke up with me after I had taken aderall a few nights previous and hadn't slept much that week and I showed my because she refused to pick me up on the way to a friends house to watch the game. I overreacted and acted like a crazy man. I almost think the fight was staged because two days later she went to see her ex out of town with her 4 year old son. The guy lives on the lake and she claims she wanted to take the son out on the lake. She could have never done this with me in the picture. She came back and told me this and showed me their texts and how they are friends. I got the guys number and called him later to let him know I'm in the picture as she had not told him. He was super cool and we talked and compared noted for and hour and a half. I don't think he has any interest in her especially after our conversation. He said she did the same things to him including a staged fight.

Here is where it is crazy. I want her back. We were good for a while until the partying took its toll. I loved the things she said and the texts all day. The I love you's and what not. I miss her and want her back really bad. Help a brother out here.

Buddy1226 · Sep 20, 2012, 08:26 AM

I also failed to mention that I have been a complete since this breakup. Doing everything you're not supposed to do from texts, showing up at her house, the angry emails, you name it. She is cold as hell but had sex with me the other night after telling me to come over. The next time I showed up she was a different person and I had to leave. Like a switch had been flipped.

slapshot_oi · Sep 21, 2012, 04:01 PM

Having this many issues in a two-month relationship isn't normal. This one wasn't meant to go the distance.

Showing up unannounced and sending angry e-mails only validates the break-up.

You need to forget about this woman and move on.

teacherjenn4 · Sep 21, 2012, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by Buddy1226

I also failed to mention that I have been a complete since this breakup. Doing everything you're not supposed to do from texts, showing up at her house, the angry emails, you name it. She is cold as hell but had sex with me the other night after telling me to come over. The next time I showed up she was a different person and I had to leave. Like a switch had been flipped.

Definitely not a healthy relationship. Drug abuse, alcohol, stalking, lying... not good!

talaniman · Sep 21, 2012, 10:26 PM

What a poor showing of self control for only two months. Leave her alone, and you get yourself under control and can act like a respectful fellow who doesn't stalk, get jealous, is insecure, and doesn't handle his party self very well.

Stop acting like an *** and see if your love life doesn't improve. If not with her, with someone else. Seems you have blown your second chance, so the brother better help himself out, and do something positive about HIS behavior starting with staying away from booze and drugs. AND people who use them.