[Pattuplay]

Tip on how to make a lady hot before having sex. How to go about it.

[ScottGem]

Wrap her in electric blankets with the heat turned way up.

[Enigma1999]

Wrap her in electric blankets with the heat turned way up.

Great start! That would get me hot...

OP, you have to realize that women are wired differently than men. For women, it is more of a mental thing. For example, doing the dishes for her, or cooking a beautiful dinner for her is a good start. One thing that I love is when I am chopping onions for dinner, and my lover comes up from behind me, puts his arms around me and kisses my neck. That worked for me.

I also recall a time of when I was painting the kitchen, and I was feeling burned out, so I told my lover that if he finishes painting the kitchen, I would let him put it in my...

[JudyKayTee]

Tip on how to make a lady hot before having sex. How to go about it.

Let's see - using the word "hot," using the word "lady," asking for tips.

Should we ask the age?

I'm guessing 14.

[smoothy]

Probably a virgin too...

[Alty]

All women are different. For instance, if I were cutting onions and my lover kissed me on the neck, I'd likely stab him with the knife I was using to cut the onions. Accidentally, but still, not something I would enjoy. ;)

Are you asking in general, or do you have a specific girl in mind? If you have a girlfriend, ask her what turns her on. If you can't do that, you're not ready for sex.

[braindamage]

Honestly, there's nothing like a girl who likes it when a man gently rubs her... kinda like teasing her.

[smoothy]

honestly, theres nothing like a girl who likes it when a man gently rubs her ...kinda like teasing her.

Seriously? I'm 51, I've dated dozens of women from maybe 10 different countries. Lived for extended periods on two continents and not seen ONE that has worked on.

I bet my wife laughs hysterically when I ask her if she gets hot if I gently rub her.

[Enigma1999]

All women are different. For instance, if I were cutting onions and my lover kissed me on the neck, I'd likely stab him with the knife I was using to cut the onions. Accidentally, but still, not something I would enjoy. ;)

H I L A R I O U S!

I cound NOT stop laughing when I read this. Here I am, trying to be seductive, and you might end up killing your lover. Too funny!

[Enigma1999]

honestly, theres nothing like a girl who likes it when a man gently rubs her ...kinda like teasing her.

Now is that before or after he paints my house?

... just curious...

[Enigma1999]

Seriously? I'm 51, I've dated dozens of women from maybe 10 different countries. lived for extended periods on two continents and not seen ONE that has worked on.

I bet my wife laughs hysterically when I ask her if she gets hot if I gently rub her.

Please be sure to tell us what her response is... ;)

[smoothy]

I asked my wife... she spent the last 5 minutes laughing...

[Alty]

honestly, theres nothing like a girl who likes it when a man gently rubs her ...kinda like teasing her.

Now I'm supposed to enjoy rubbing and teasing? I still have that knife from cutting up the onions, I'd tread carefully if I were you.

[JudyKayTee]

honestly, theres nothing like a girl who likes it when a man gently rubs her ...kinda like teasing her.

This is a classic! With apologies to men everywhere, this has GOT to be the idea of a man!

[smoothy]

This is a classic! With apologies to men everywhere, this has GOT to be the idea of a man!

A very young, VERY inexperienced man... or a boy.

[JudyKayTee]

A very young, VERY inexperienced man.....or a boy.

I checked - female. Booty call on another thread.

I think every woman at some time when she's upset has screamed at her "partner," "Get your hands off me!" Something to be said about trying to do anything with someone pawing you.

[excon]

Hello:

Onions?? Knives? Gentle rubbing?? No wonder I can't get laid.

excon

[Magpie95]

Seriously? I'm 51, I've dated dozens of women from maybe 10 different countries. lived for extended periods on two continents and not seen ONE that has worked on.

I bet my wife laughs hysterically when I ask her if she gets hot if I gently rub her.

This works on me. :)
Every woman is different. For example, I am 35 and much like a tuning fork. My boyfriend is a pilot. So, I like to use air traffic controller gestures to wave him in the right direction. Other women, like more cerebral build ups. I agree, you need to just ask her... and hopefully, she is old enough to know the answer and articulate it.

[smoothy]

This works on me. :)
Every woman is different. For example, I am 35 and much like a tuning fork. My boyfriend is a pilot. So, I like to use air traffic controller gestures to wave him in the right direction. Other women, like more cerebral build ups. I agree, you need to just ask her...and hopefully, she is old enough to know the answer and articulate it.

Yes... no one size fits all answers when it comes to women... we guys on the other hand are so easy to please its almost pathetic.

[JudyKayTee]

Yes....no one size fits all answers when it comes to women....we guys on the other hand are so easy to please its almost pathetic.

Oh, no, that isn't... oh, wait. Never mind.