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    superman321 Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 11, 2012, 12:48 PM
    Yeah you make sense . I am putting my mind over matter and I don't feel that miserable any more . I din attend her calls any more.. I want no revenge , I don't want anything for her... I just want myself back . Thank you guys for your support :) I have read revenge backfires on ourselves that is why I am not thinking about it , I have also experienced it.. but as you said its her revengful attitude will she paay it off some day or highly regret about it?
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    Aug 11, 2012, 12:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by superman321 View Post
    yeah you make sense . i am putting my mind over matter and i dont feel that miserable any more . i din attend her calls any more .. i want no revenge , i dont want anything for her ...i just want my self back . thank you guys for your support :) i have read revenge backfires on ourselves that is why i am not thinking about it , i have also experienced it .. but as you said its her revengful attitude will she paay it off some day or highly regret about it ??

    You know the very BEST revenge? You go on, you meet someone you are happy to be with, she is happy to be with you, your life is successful - and the player gets to stand and watch it all happen and wonder what she must have been thinking when she treated you badly.

    Best revenge in the world!
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    Sep 13, 2012, 07:35 AM
    Last birthday I was with her 24 hours . We broke up one month back ! I still like her , but I think if she only wants me badly the relationship can work .I didn't talk to her since a week . She is spending time with one guy , he is the new guy in her wats app dp and statuses on fb ! We had a strong relation first I broke then she . What should I do ?

    Should I call her or message?
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    Sep 13, 2012, 07:38 AM
    What should you do? Nothing. Nada. No Contact. She's with someone else now, and he can wish her a happy birthday and give her gifts. Save your energy, your money, and your heart for someone who is in your future.
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    Sep 13, 2012, 07:54 PM
    IGNORE her birthday! Let the new guy buy her a cake.

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