Should I wait for my ex to come back or move on?
hi guys thank you for taking some of your time for me... I am going through a phase with a girl and I am bit confused about what should my next step be
- I am dating this girl for more than 1.2 years
- we both love each other but due to her suspicious and telling me the part of truth after weeks made me go mad . Cmon we have to accept that guys do get bothered with this .
- she was heart broken when I broke up with her .
-she has lots of ego I have never seen this much in any of my ex
-we din speak for 1 month
-she called me and we just started talking randomly she wanted to get back but I told her I won't be mentally at peace and I don't want to harm you too
- she started hanging out with people I didn't like before
-went to booze with a person whom she had a crush before me
-i should accept I got jealous but more concerned cause this people only believe in smoking drinking and smoking up all night they are basically useless people.. the whole college knows.. and though I was reluctant on getting back I want to avoid problems.. even it considers giving a second thought for the relationship..
-then I asked her to meet me after lot of talks she got convinced but she was hell bent on not getting back.. she said you also left me for a month (kinda revenge attitude or satisfying ego attitude )
-once I bumped into her in a restaurant where she was having a cocktail with the guy she had a crush on before me ,she got up tio hug me but at the same time she was ballracked I guess . I hugged both of them andi so wanted to be calm but couldn't help it . I told her meet me after 15 minutes
- but she was so adamant of not leaving that guy but she was readyto talk to me for 15 minutes . But I was like we will meet later on
- she refused and I was adamant I don't know what was I thinking but I was hell bent to talk to her that time
-when she met me outside for 10 minutes I just tiold her I asked her if anythingis going betweenthem she said no , I told her that I miss her and hugged her she too passionately hugged me and we were cozy for few minutes (thinking was that to make me feel good and shew me off )
-later I joined them and the guy was into his cell an it was too embarrassing for her and she just wanted to leave.. after paying the bill she wanted to just leave but I didn't . I tried stopping her but she that I have come with him and go with him.. and when she got in the car she abused me saying she was having a good time and I screwed it..
- she was very pissed with me . But I just couldn't control talking to her she left and then I told that guy to tell her to meet me near her building but she didn't turn up I called she didn't pick
-i thought I should work with patience . I told one of out mututal friend she spoke to her and her reply was like I was not in a mood to talk cause he was so adamant . I do have a soft corner for him but this behavious is pissing me of .
-the same day in morning she wanted to meet me at my home but later on she was like let it be I forgot we r not dating
-this guys and my ex talk a lot on what's app it seems cause their chat timing comes the same aropund 1 and 3 in the night..
-that guy also broke up after 5 years of dating 2 months back
-he was telling me to talk to her on the phone during that incident cause it would just make things worse . I agreed but I just couldn't leave that place..
questions
- its been over 2 days this incident happen
- I want her for good
- I get impatient about what to do
how to get her back.. if you give me an idea at this haywire time I can put it to use .
I want my ex-gf back , she still loves me but I messed it up few days back !
We were again in talking terms after I broke up with her . She asked me to give a second thought I gave it a try after 2 days and she denied of getting back , looked like she wanted to take a revenge . But after few days she was talking to me again she was being good and missing me but I bumped into her in an restaurant with her ex crush whom she met before me
She was having a cocktail with him . I met them with a smile but she intiated for a personal talk . I probably lost my control and insisted her to meet me after the lunch.. but she got pissed and annoyed . That day was bad . I told her I'm going to regret this day after 2 days but just couldn't go from there.
Now she is really pissed over it I spoke to her after 3 days and that thing is still there she told me if that didn't happen she would be dating me still.. I don't pour my emotions on the phone but I accepted it.. and now what can be done.. I love her !
Should I wait for my ex to come back or move on ?
I was dating this girl for more than a year , first I broke up for valid reasons and after a month she wanted me back giving it a thought I told her we can get back again but she said no (looked like revengful cause I had hurt her ego cause I broke up ) I want to work out things between us . After that I maintained no contact rule she called me up late in the night to share a good news and before cutting down the phone she said she is finding it difficult to forget me ( through out the call I was calm she asked me why are you sounding that amazing ) I didn't reply anything when she said that . Now should I wait for her or move on?? Really want to work out things cause time have healed our wrong notions and damages.. it would be great to have your advice..
My ex-girlfriend had physical relations with one of my friends.
After breaking up she had it with my friend who is just an aquintance . He also broke up while I broke up . While they were dating . She realized she loves me and he realized he loves is ex ,we patched up . She told me this and I forgived her but told her if you really want this to work out just be there cause there are chances I might go haywire ,I think she told me cause she had afear that I would come to know . But from the next moment it self it seemed she doesn't have a guilt about it . As of nw I'm just taking my sweet time.. I have accepted it , I would have forgiven her , but I am not positive about her future behaviour ! I think its revenge time cause when she goes revengful with other people ( me , her exes ) which had land her into major trouble ! Just want to dump her some day with proper reasons in mind.. slight revenge is okay just to satisfy myself a bit , I won't physically harm her or anything .