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    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
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    #21

    Jul 3, 2012, 06:16 AM
    Running the streets with someone his own age.
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    #22

    Jul 16, 2012, 12:53 AM
    I like a girl who is three years younger than me? What do I do?
    So I'm 15 years old, in 8th grade, good student, good grades, never missed a day of school (which I'm very proud of) I have been recently diagnosed with "Social Anxiety Disorder" and makes talking to girls, or giving presentations in front of the class very difficult, and I really hate having to talk in front of a large group of people.Anyway I'm in the Middle Schools Orchestra and I play Violin, there is this girl there she is very smart (she is 12 years old) and skipped ahead 2 grades (Therefore she should be in 6th grade, not 8th) and she is also in Orchestra and plays the Cello.

    I want to be friends or maybe be her boyfriend (Know what I mean?) I recently (before school got out for the summer) an anonymous letter to her stating that I liked her and that wanted to be friends, she found out it was me, Thinking I was in a really bad situation, I wasn't, she understood what it meant and didn't freak out at all (which is good, right :D)

    Its summer time now, we're out of school now and I really want to talk to her but I don't know what her parents will think of a 15 year old liking their daughter calling, I don't know how to tell my parents I like someone and that they're 12 years old, I really want to be friends with her and I really want to know how I can overcome my fear of talking to her and maybe overcome my Social Anxiety Disorder.

    -Thank you for your time!
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    #23

    Jul 16, 2012, 06:55 AM
    Haven't you posted this before under a different name? Most parents I know would have a problem with their 12 year old dating, let alone dating a 15 year old. I know I would
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    #24

    Jul 16, 2012, 02:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Haven't you posted this before under a different name? Most parents I know would have a problem with their 12 year old dating, let alone dating a 15 year old. I know I would
    Nope, same name, just posted again.
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    #25

    Jul 16, 2012, 03:07 PM
    Please stop asking the same question over and over. Our answer won't change. I've merged all your threads into one. Any new threads started for the same question will be removed.

    As others have said, a 12 year old is too young to start dating one on one. And she NEEDS her parents permission to date.

    At 15 you are on the edges of being too old for her. Its borderline. I suggest you move on to someone closer to your age.
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    #26

    Jul 16, 2012, 04:08 PM
    Find someone your own age to cure your social anxiety - she's too young to cope with your problems.

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